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How to Level Up Your Wardrobe: A Primer on First Impressions By [email protected] • Last Updated: December 16, 2013 • 132 comments Today’s post might be one of the more important articles we’ve ever posted on Nerd Fitness. If your job is letting/encouraging/forcing you to work from home because of the pandemic (and you’ve been fortunate enough not to be laid off), you might be able to save up and blow your second month’s pay on a new wardrobe. Problem solved. Of course, you might not be working from home, and hopefully, the pandemic will be over one day. Dye your hair.

Buy a new pair of earrings that are gaudier than you’re used to. Try out some bold new shoes. Experiment with a daring look. Half the fun of fashion is trying new things and getting out of your comfort zone.

Even if shopping isn’t in the cards for you right now, try to mix and match pieces in your existing wardrobe. Impression doesn’t have much of a role in the game, but in August when the new claiming system was implemented, it brought along some advantages for higher level impressions. Dreamboat will give you the most advantage, but after the first 3 lower level stages, things get better.

Because dressing well does not mean dressing up; it’s about being a true representation of what you want to achieve, from your core brand values, to your outward appearance. It’s less about making a good first impression, it ensures that you are making THE RIGHT impressions. In order to level up, you have to dress for the level you’re expecting. xoNecole is the leading women’s lifestyle digital destination for women of color for the latest in hair, style trends, career and finance advice, love and relationships, sex, culture and news.

⭐ Tips and solutions to level up using your wardrobe ⭐ The foundations of The Well Dressed Brand ⭐ What is personal branding and why it’s important �� BONUS! Toi is offering 50% discount to TGAG listeners on her consulting! See show notes and enter “Style” Wardrobe is a business strategy. Alright, so our next regards to level level up about self care. Okay clean out is about ask that maybe or things that you’re dedicating some time to do it leveling self care for and are is simple, but yet it is hard, especially especially if you are homebound, especially if you’ve had a Super big change into your.

Color makes a bold impression. Strategically incorporate color into your wardrobe. Darker colored clothing will give you more visual power, presence and credibility.

To look taller and thinner, use the one color dressing technique. 3. Use direct eye contact. It. One way to ensure a positive first impression is by focusing on managing your image.

According to the Image Consulting Business Institute, image management is the “ongoing, pro-active process.

List of related literature:

Extend your wardrobe by using neutrals in jackets and sweaters, and adding the drama of color in tops.

“Easy Guide to Sewing Tops and T-Shirts, Skirts, and Pants” by Lynn MacIntyre, Marcy Tilton
from Easy Guide to Sewing Tops and T-Shirts, Skirts, and Pants
by Lynn MacIntyre, Marcy Tilton
Taunton Press, 2009

Also make sure to have a variety of neutral-colored items of clothing that you can mix and match with bright-colored garments.

“Etiquette For Dummies” by Sue Fox
from Etiquette For Dummies
by Sue Fox
Wiley, 2011

to allow you to try new clothes, then change the color of those clothes, and choose from a variety of jewelry, etc.

“Understanding Augmented Reality: Concepts and Applications” by Alan B. Craig
from Understanding Augmented Reality: Concepts and Applications
by Alan B. Craig
Elsevier Science, 2013

Take stock of your day-to-day life and your activities, and then evaluate what you actually need and actually wear.

“Fashion For Dummies” by Jill Martin, Pierre A. Lehu
from Fashion For Dummies
by Jill Martin, Pierre A. Lehu
Wiley, 2009

After deciding on your character’s basic clothing, you continue to get into style by figuring out what else he or she will wear.

“Manga For Dummies” by Kensuke Okabayashi
from Manga For Dummies
by Kensuke Okabayashi
Wiley, 2011

For the latter, limiting choices to two outfits is helpful.

“Varcarolis' Foundations of Psychiatric-Mental Health Nursing E-Book: A Clinical Approach” by Margaret Jordan Halter
from Varcarolis’ Foundations of Psychiatric-Mental Health Nursing E-Book: A Clinical Approach
by Margaret Jordan Halter
Elsevier Health Sciences, 2017

Create an ADD-Friendly Closet withthe Help of a Clutter Companion Manyadults with ADD make betterand faster wardrobe choices whenthe choicesare easierto see, when there are fewer choices, and when

“ADD-Friendly Ways to Organize Your Life: Strategies that Work from a Professional Organizer and a Renowned ADD Clinician” by Judith Kolberg, Kathleen Nadeau
from ADD-Friendly Ways to Organize Your Life: Strategies that Work from a Professional Organizer and a Renowned ADD Clinician
by Judith Kolberg, Kathleen Nadeau
Taylor & Francis, 2012

Make sure you wear the following pieces of clothing (and Check out Chapter 4 for a basic overview of clothing needs in a survival situation):

“Wilderness Survival For Dummies” by Cameron M. Smith, John F. Haslett
from Wilderness Survival For Dummies
by Cameron M. Smith, John F. Haslett
Wiley, 2009

I would make notes of what I was going to buy next, then save up to get the complete outfit.”

“Mods: The New Religion” by Paul Anderson
from Mods: The New Religion
by Paul Anderson
Omnibus Press, 2014

Here are four strategies to inspire and sustain a simple wardrobe:

“Fibershed: Growing a Movement of Farmers, Fashion Activists, and Makers for a New Textile Economy” by Rebecca Burgess, Courtney White
from Fibershed: Growing a Movement of Farmers, Fashion Activists, and Makers for a New Textile Economy
by Rebecca Burgess, Courtney White
Chelsea Green Publishing, 2019

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  • ALPHA I’m coming back to this video because I have faltered. Give people compliments, I’m thinking about the party I went to last night and how a conversation might have gone with a spicy senorita if I’d have complimented her bomb ass hair, shit.

  • ALPHA!!!!
    I HAVE WATCHED YOUR VIDEOS FOR A WHILE NOW AND IVE GROWN TO APRECIATE YOU AND YOUR TIPS, I HAVE 2 OF THOSE 3 THINGS AND I WANT TO KNOW HOW TO FIX THE FUCKIN STUTTERS AND MUMBLES THE FASTEST WAYS POSSIBLE CAN YOU PLEASE HELP ME OUT? BECAUSE TRUTH BE TOLD IT DOESNT MATTER WHAT YOU WHERE AND HOW YOU ACT. IF YOU DONT KNOW HOW TO SPEAK THAN YOUR JUST LIKE A FUCKIN MANNEQUIN AND ITS HORRIBLE MAN. PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE HELP US OUT BECAUSE IM NOT THE ONLY ONE, PLEASE ALPHA

  • Followed your diet plan, lost 30 pounds, now my clothes are all baggy. Ya, I said it. It’s all your fault I’m dressed sloppy. Thanks again my friend.

  • Brooooo I like your new shirt bro… i think it makes you look even better! i think you should wear that in every video JOKE! HAHAHA but for real though you look hot in that shirt bro! I’m starting to have a mancrush on you bro! HAHAHAHA jk HAHAH

  • Don’t forget. These are just “impressions.”…Not facts.

    Just red flags, and possible hints of a certain behavior. Use them as guidelines only. Not as official rules.

    Be careful not to judge a book by its cover. And actually get to know the person first, before you misinterpret them.

    But people are going to perceive you the way they want to anyway. So you shouldn’t worry so much about what they think, and instead just be yourself.

  • The day I killed America!
    by richi805

    tap,tap,tap….that’s all I kept hearing. the roaring wind making contact with the tree which kept producing that wretched sound. I looked to the right and saw that snow white restroom paper. I knew I had to think fast, otherwise the worst would happen. that noise kept going…tap tap tap. oh lord please let it stop! I felt that sweat dripping down my forehead and tasting that salty fluid. Tap,Tap TAP….. I could hear it getting worse. My breathing got worse and I felt nauseous. My life began playing in my head. My first kiss, the day I proposed to my beautiful wife, the first day I met my oldest son Jason. Oh what a wonderful day, like a scene from a fictional novel. I started smelling something now. Not sure what it was, I only knew it couldn’t be good! I took a deep breath and prayed to the big cheese upstairs and repent for all my sins. Splash, the deed was done. The room filled with the stench of death! I knew this was unholy. The fall of an angel was nothing compared to this. I asked him for guidance. What else could I do? To my left I saw it! The answer to my prayer. Tiege Hanley! It was just so beautiful amazing! The texture as well as the smell all indicated that everything would be OK. I scooped a dime size and rubbed the monstrosity until it turned pale. I knew I had done it. I started seeing something oddly strange? My breath was running wild and I felt my heart racing. I saw it. I had created a monster, but not any monster. This creature had a weird face and body. My vision grew blurry and I just kept seeing red. I felt extreme pain and I blacked out. The last thing I heard was “you’re fired”.

    ” call me Mr. President”

    please purchase tiege hanley guys let’s help out Alpha! He really does have an awesome product

  • Shirt’s a bit too long imo, completely covers your crotch. Also, Proper Cloth is hands down the best MTO shirt company, with as you guess it, the best fabrics. Even though they’re not cheap I still find myself buying from them because the shirts are the absolute best I have and have ever owned!

  • I disagree with the better dresser get the job when I went for my first interview I did not even wear a tie or jacket, not even nice shoes. I got the job because I have a brain. the guys that dress smart was idiots

  • ALPHA I’m coming back to this video because I have faltered. Give people compliments, I’m thinking about the party I went to last night and how a conversation might have gone with a spicy senorita if I’d have complimented her bomb ass hair, shit.

  • “Head and shoulders above your competition”…. And speaking about your head and shoulders, make sure that your skin is super smooth with some Tiege

  • my dude had swag, looks, charm i think he even used Tiege Hanley lol, but seroulsy dude he acted like a brat, Game over mario was down and outta there! asap!

  • Tailor Store shirts starts at $69 hand crafted for you. Additional 20% off with AlphaM https://www.tailorstore.com/making-a-better-first-impression

  • hey Aaron i really enjoy your videos i just want to know your thoughts on tracksuits. I am a teen and i love tracksuits(legs) and normal tshirts. I feel like it fits me well but I am not alpha enough. Hope you see this 😉

  • Hey alpha m. Got a question i’d like to pose to you, one which i would appreciate a video on. It is in regards to suits, i have my university graduation ceremony coming up in July (in the UK) and was hoping you could give me some guidance and maybe anyone else out there on the best suits to wear in the summer, to go for a full three piece or just a suit jacket and jeans, also what types of styles are ‘in’ right now. Any help would be greatly appreciated! Love watching your stuff, keep up the great work!

  • Alpha I invited her to my house to smoke weed cuz she likes that but she has a bf for like 4 years you think she’s down to smash or atleast is this considered a date?

  • Bro a really like all of your content and it really help me to pay more attention toward my personality and grooming.
    Can u do a video about best face wash for oily face type.

  • alpha,
    with all the videos on how to dress to impress how about a video or two on how to keep those clothes in pristine condition and maybe some mens fashion 101 videos

  • This is super factual! Last night at a party (yah i’m in highschool and this stuff works even there) i hooked up with a super hot chick, and she straight up said it was cause she liked my style, in particular my shirt. It was at most $20 but it looked good and fit really well, and that’s what clearly counts

  • Aaron, please, dont go in wrong direction. Your videos were so strong, real. They were you presenting facts and YOUR ideas about better, confident life. I dont feel it anymore because you do too much sponsored videos where you start well with introducing us with powerful title and the theme that we need but then all falls apart when your sponsors product “take the seat”. Please make videos like before, where they have more “you” in there. Thank you Alpha. Ivan

  • I just could wear baggy pants and little crop tops showing my stomach without hating it cuz I’m not as skinny as most other girls wearing that sort of style and fearing sitting down!!

  • You’re so beautiful it doesn’t matter what make up like you do or what Wigs you were always so beautiful thank you for the tips you give appreciate them

  • I’m an artsy hoe who loves grunge but kinda likes to be girly like how this whole video I’ve wanted to ask where you got that damn shirt *❤️ but I also love sweatpants and crops and big tees and button ups and dark colours and pastels and plaid. Help

  • THANK YOU FOR THIS VIDEO!!! Most people who make videos like this start by saying “mAKe a PIntEReSt bOard oF aLL oF ThE tyPeS oF cLOthEs ThAT YoU LiKe aNd THe sTYlEs tHAt iNSpiRE yOU” and then their next step is to buy more clothes within that “style”. This was a WAYYYY more practical and effective video with clear steps on how to find your actual style!!!!

  • I feel like i’m living my past self. But I’m into korean fashion but it’s not easy to find it in my country. So when I buy clothes is always what my younger self liked. I have a pinterest thing saved with clothes that I love but I can’t buy it in my country and I’m pretty sure I won’t wear it if I had the chance so I’m kinda stuck lol.

  • Just a tip if you don’t want to post it to so many people you can create a private account and then only some people that you want can see it

  • What can help you get a head-start if you’re completely lost: Look into the Kibbe body types as well as your Color Season Type, then engage in endless Instagram, Reddit and Pinterest searches although many things are kinda old-fashioned, there’s good stuff in between.
    These can serve as a guideline (not restriction) on what style and hues may fit you best.

  • If I’m honest I thought you’d literally demand me to wear a set of clothes but NAH you are so nice and helpful! Thank you alot ���� And boy are you glowing and GOREGOUS sista

  • If you feel good inside and you are relaxed and friendly and not noisy or showing off you WILL create a good impression. Simple as that ��

  • I see Clothes that I like but I don’t get it cause I know I don’t have the confidence to wear it and my mom will whip me for not wearing it

  • I want to try and find my own style but my dad doesn’t want me to look like a boy cause he’s having a hard time accepting that I’m bi so this is really hard for me cause he also doesn’t want me to wear crop tops.
    He’s always telling me to hurry up when shopping but it’s not that I’m not looking I’m just looking for something he’ll approve of. Plus he’s conservative and in the era where all the girls wore baggy sweatpants and baggy shirts������

  • my biggest question about fashion is that what if i dont want to make a point with my clothes? what if i dont want clothes to define me? what if the existence of cultural context on every single piece of clothing is way too much for me to hande and process? how do i find my “style” then?
    minimalism also makes a statement. and a huge one. metamodernism embraces minimalism, so that makes you real trendy.
    how will i ever get out of this labyrinth?

  • It’s a huge and great investment when I decided to buy a sewing machine. I discovered that I have a thing for sewing and when I find clothes online that I like (the style and cut), I sew my own clothes. Thank you, Ashley!

  • Okay but how do you combine brightly-colored/ugly hawaiian shirts, gothy, vintage-y, frumpy oversized sweater, high functionality themes?? Cuz I LOVE all that shit ����

  • I’ve lost a lot of weight during quarantine and I’m really close to my goal weight. And that means I can wear clothes I never thought I’d be able to wear. I’ve always dreamed of wearing cute clothes and not looking bland because my main focus was trying to hide my chub. I’m going to use these tips to try and get better at finding clothes that match and are cute. Thank you so much for this video.

  • i’m tryna change my style cuz i’m getting tired of having absolutely no color in my closet and just wearing basic colored t-shirt and leggings. but i’m also pale so like nothing looks good on me ��

  • hate my closet. absolutely hate it.:( I know what clothes I want, the only thing is that my mom hates almost every style I’ve shown her.:/ So, first step is that my mom will allow me to wear what i want.

  • I’ve personally never had a style or anything that was actually mine, so I decided to change it and start finding clothes that really suit me. This video will reaaaally help me achieving this “goal” soo thank you thank you thank you! <3

  • How should I wear shorts or skirts or dresses often? Cuz I don’t have confidence. Help me out please comment. I always wear long pants or long skirts, dresses and jackets or you know, juz not fashionable. The clothes in my closet are mostly for special occations and shirts I got from my relatives from my birthday.

  • I watched this and now I wear what I want and I never get harsh words thrown at me I used to get bullied and I was insecure to wear no e stuff but watching this video made me able to wear what I want u made my life very easy I love u so much thanks

  • Always seeming to direct the conversation with “I -this-” or “me -that-” or “I…I….I…I” definitely gets under the skin. Thanks for the awareness psych2go.

  • My current style is dressing like a middle school boy in gym shorts and t-shirts all year round I think I may be the exception to not completely starting from scratch

  • How should I wear shorts or skirts or dresses often? Cuz I don’t have confidence. Help me out please comment. I always wear long pants or long skirts, dresses and jackets or you know, juz not fashionable. The clothes in my closet are mostly for special occations and shirts I got from my relatives from my birthday.

  • Like I am pretty thicc and im a liiittle bit fat and ya know I love wearing dresses and I would SOOOO wear tank tops and crop tops BUUUT my mom wouldnt let me wear something like that since I am fat and I look weird but I like how I am thicc! I would like to be just a little bit thinner!

  • I’m starting high school I love the overdressed look and a lot of eccentric looks, I think at my age I’m looking for what my style and what is best for me and how I feel. I want to overdress but once let’s say, my mom, asks me to go change because that is too much it feels somewhat of a bummer. I understand that of course, I have to listen to what she has to say because like my mom says “90% of the I know what I’m talking about”. She has a lot of wisdom and I understand she has most likely gone through it. I guess this was a way to vent. ��

  • Is there someone whose style that you fit in and style that you adore are way different? That’s me…��‍♀️ Maybe im not good at self objectification.

  • I wear black jeans that have like a shoelace lacing up my legs idk how to explain it ����
    And i usually wear a black or black and red graphic t shirt with it and any black shoes I could find ��

    PLEASE HELP ME ��

  • Don’t give a shit, but at the same time care, be friendly and assume she likes you, say no when a no is needed, leave in the high point of the conversation, bla bla bla, that stufff

  • Dearly Bethany is the best channel for mindset videos and teaching us how to be the best version of ourselves possible ���� I actually created my own channel, ‘Taylor Victoria’, to show even MORE videos like this �� Come and check it out and I will always follow back ��

  • Thank you. You’ve given much to think about. Trying to change my wardrobe but I realized it’s not just changing the clothes that I have to work on.

  • I am really trying to figure this out. In high school I wore a uniform to school, basic tshirts/running shorts to extracurriculars, and another uniform to work. I then went straight to a super strict Christian college where I had a dress code and again work uniforms. I left that school and went straight to working and more uniforms. I am now 22, married with 2 kids, and I have absolutely no idea how to dress. I’ve only ever dressed according to someone else’s rules and now I don’t even fit into my old tshirts and jeans because of babies. I am so lost ����

  • After watching over sixteen of Bethany’s fashion videos I have finally been more honest with myself and more confident in my own body. Ever since December of last year, I started selling online all the items that I did not like or did not wear anymore. Then found Dearly Bethany here on YT, I have done so much research on everything from necklines to dresses, shirts, blouses length. To types of pants, skirt, etc. Body shape, colors that look great with my skin color. Finally… I realized I have been wearing the wrong century all along! I am building up Old-World Greece/ 1950s type of wardrobe. It’s a bit expensive but so worth it because the fabrics are handmade and earth-friendly. These pieces will last me forever or I can hand them down to my three nieces who love dressing up! �� �� �� ��

  • I saved all the outfit picture that has same color and style that I have in my wardrobe on pinterest, to choose what should I wear easier

  • I found my style which is a little bit old fashioned. I am not comfortable at trendy style like shorts or crop top which is showing your cleavage

  • I didn’t feel like taking photos everyday so I went through my photos of the last 2 years to see what colors and styles looked good on me. Found out that grey and dark colored tops don’t work for me at all! I have quite a few of them but never knew why I don’t really feel comfortable in them. I now created a color palette and think this will help me so much. Thanks for this inspiring video!

  • thank u for mentioning about liking more than 1 style of clothing. i like 3 styles: vintage/retro, alternative/dark minimalism and geek chic. I love color, specifically jewel tones, i hate pastels, but my fave color is black though. all these fashion blogs say how u need to identify your style but they never talk about the possibility that your style could be a combo of more than 1 style

  • I can’t tell you how helpful this was. I watched it, took notes, immediately went into my bedroom and ended up filling an IKEA bag with clothes that just weren’t me.

  • Wow! Thank you for this video.
    I have been struggling for so many years with my style and at nearly 40 still don’t know. I was always annoyed with myself because I stuck to the same colours and thought I should be more adventurous but actually you have made me feel better to stick to what I love. Hope to see more from you x

  • Okay but how do you combine brightly-colored/ugly hawaiian shirts, gothy, vintage-y, frumpy oversized sweater, high functionality themes?? Cuz I LOVE all that shit ����

  • i feel like my style changes every few months and i keep wasting money on clothes lmao and this is how its always been.. i feel like i should have grown out of this stage by now lol

  • I can’t tell you how helpful this was. I watched it, took notes, immediately went into my bedroom and ended up filling an IKEA bag with clothes that just weren’t me.