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�� I’M SCARED OF MY FAMILY… I KNOW WHAT THEY DID! ��

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�� I’M SCARED OF MY FAMILY… I KNOW WHAT THEY DID! ��

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Hi Steve!!! Totally random, but a few months ago I subscribed to your mailing list while I was exploring the paleo lifestyle.I love all the material that you have put together, but the fact that you used gaming terminology really struck a chord in me. Well, I don’t know what the heck you’re talking about, but my brother, Mike, has been gaming obsessively for nearly 20 years. I’m worried, about her and my siblings.

I start a part time job soon, which is better than my mom, who can only make enough to buy food. I am deeply moved by your desire to help the family. The preemptive worry helps them avoid discomfort, but if you force yourself to do the very things that make you uncomfortable, you will rely less on worry as a. I’m worried I’ve offended my family by wanting Christmas alone “Festive planning can leave me feeling overwhlemed” For many years, me and my husband have hosted Christmas dinner for our family both our parents, siblings, cousins and so on. I can’t really help, i’m 18 and going through a similar thing at the moment, it hasn’t been going on for too long only about 2-3 weeks but every night when im trying to sleep or when I wake up i’m worrying about what may happen and how fast the time is going to go with my mother as I am incredibly close to her and so worried about her being gone as I think i’d probably end up.

What can I do if I’m worried about my grandkids? Sunday, August 27th, 2017 “I’m worried about my grandkids. I don’t think they are getting taken care of, and I don’t know what to do.” “I don’t know where my grandchildren’s parents are, and honestly, I don’t care. I just want to be able to take care of my grandchildren.”.

Father, I surrender all my worry and anxiety to You. I believe. Help my unbelief. With Your help, I can trust that everything You do is perfect and all Your promises are true.

I can face each day with You, my shield and protection. Please show me where I’ve failed to surrender to You. Forgive me. Relaxation techniques can change the brain.

While the above relaxation techniques can provide some immediate respite from worry and anxiety, practicing them regularly can also change your brain. Research has shown that regular meditation, for example, can boost activity on the left side of the prefrontal cortex, the area of the brain responsible for feelings of serenity and joy. Family I Think I’m Worried About My Kid The statements alone serve as a basis for seeking help or intervention.

We’re not saying that you have to haul your 4-year-old to the emergency room. I’m asking The Lord to help me let go of him. It’s been around 10 months and slowly recovering from my nervous breakdown. Trying to pray more and increase my faith. It’s very hard and battling depression is a struggle everyday.

God wants the best and I will keep moving forward. I’m really scared that I can’t sleep without a sleeping pill.

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The family may have other problems they are not addressing, which create anxiety and stress.

“Father Hunger: Fathers, Daughters, and the Pursuit of Thinness” by Margo Maine, Craig Johnson
from Father Hunger: Fathers, Daughters, and the Pursuit of Thinness
by Margo Maine, Craig Johnson
Gürze Books, 2010

Seek out trained counselors if your worry and anxiety become more than you and your family can handle alone.

“NLT Life Application Study Bible, Third Edition, Large Print (Red Letter, Genuine Leather, Black)” by Tyndale
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by Tyndale
Tyndale House Publishers, 2020

These categories help to clarify the situation, but we need a better understanding of family dynamics in coping with stress.

“The Family: A Christian Perspective on the Contemporary Home” by Jack O. Balswick, Judith K. Balswick
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by Jack O. Balswick, Judith K. Balswick
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Family stress is a risk factor for accidental poisoning.

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Every family makes some kind of adjustment to a problem.

“Maternal & Child Health Nursing: Care of the Childbearing & Childrearing Family” by Adele Pillitteri
from Maternal & Child Health Nursing: Care of the Childbearing & Childrearing Family
by Adele Pillitteri
Wolters Kluwer Health/Lippincott Williams & Wilkins, 2010

They may need time to think and talk to family members to find out what is expected of them.

“Communication Skills for Midwives: Challenges in Everyday Practice” by Carole England
from Communication Skills for Midwives: Challenges in Everyday Practice
by Carole England
McGraw-Hill Education, 2012

Families needing counseling are more or less normal but are showing signs of stress.

“Spinal Cord Injuries E-Book: Management and Rehabilitation” by Sue Ann Sisto, Erica Druin, Martha Macht Sliwinski
from Spinal Cord Injuries E-Book: Management and Rehabilitation
by Sue Ann Sisto, Erica Druin, Martha Macht Sliwinski
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Looking at the situation dialectically, most family members are fearful about the safety of their loved ones and often try to control their behaviors, going so far as putting them in residential treatment or hospitalizing them to keep them safe or making therapy appointments for them without consulting them.

“Overcoming Borderline Personality Disorder: A Family Guide for Healing and Change” by Valerie Porr, M.A.
from Overcoming Borderline Personality Disorder: A Family Guide for Healing and Change
by Valerie Porr, M.A.
Oxford University Press, 2010

Contact the family as soon as possible (phone message, letter; try not to e-mail).

“Developmental-Behavioral Pediatrics E-Book” by William B. Carey, Allen C. Crocker, Ellen Roy Elias, Heidi M. Feldman, William L. Coleman
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by William B. Carey, Allen C. Crocker, et. al.
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Families themselves need significant support when their relative is in critical care, and their anxiety can be relieved by clear explanations.

“Alexander's Nursing Practice E-Book: Hospital and Home” by Ian Peate
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  • Even though most of the time it’s not my parents actually being mean or yelling at me nowadays I think they might be one of the main triggers for my ocd. My mom drove my brother out of the house for a minor mistake that I probably would’ve made as well in a situation of no support or reasonableness from any adult in his life. Then when he tried to talk it out she literally laughed at him, called him names, and badmouthed him to almost everyone around until he called her immature at which point she told everyone he abused her. I love my mom and like to think I always will but I’m 99% sure she’s emotionally immature as she’s been acting in similar and extremely frustrating ways to me, never admitting fault, irrational anger, self victimization, etc. for years. Meanwhile my old man has dealt with it for so long (either that or he just naturally doesn’t care which is a lot scarier) he either enables or ignores the drama that directly impacts his kids. Not only that he sometimes ignores stuff that I’d think is not reasonable in any sense to ignore like my multiple mental health issues. I’m extremely grateful to have support from a lot of other places, and hope to be independent in three years. In the mean time I’m trying to decide what to do with my parents before and after that point. love your videos kati, this was pretty helpful.

  • My parents not once cared about my feelings. Especially my mom, who just acted like a victim all the time. Making me feel blamed cause she married my dad and had me. Even though that was her problem, she could do anything she wanted she stayed with him cause she wanted. I never askedto be born. And the things i cared most they made sure to take away from me. Abandoning my pets, chicks, dogs and cats. Not locking my cats so they would get lost. They made sure not to wast one cent trying to protect my cats. And my cats cared more about me than they ever did. And now they are gone. I feel so sorry for it. They let them get poisoned and did nothing to justice. Never took my cats to ver cause they just cared as for material things and wouldnt waste money about my babies. I was so weak that i could even beg anymore. I am so regret that i didn’t fight for them hard enough. �� And then i couldn’t be happy in relationships, i didn’t knew what guys meanted tto be with me or not. I let guys use me cause all of the weak and depressed mind, and even got sexual assaulted and couldn’t get justice cause of what my parrnts would think or what the gossip would it be, that they only care about gossip. I hate my life

  • Hey, could you do a video about “dismissive avoidant disorder”, the symptoms and how to resolve it. I find your videos very helpful.

  • Based on the title of this video I hoped to gain some insight on this topic. All I heard was parents do the best they can. Really? That’s the oldest cliche in the book.

  • What to do if I live in a society where I live with my parents till I get married so I am 33 years old and still live with my dad, and during quarantine this is driving me crazy ������

  • 1st question: my therapist said a similar thing to me. She told me she wants to make sure i have a stable foundation basically and family stuff comes later, she will have that in mind. I trusted her with this, last session we dove into family stuff.

    I’m not saying i don’t get a say in what we’re doing but she recommends things from her professional perspective and i trust her. i am also already feeling positive effects after a few months.

  • Haven’t seen any comments congratulating the Surgeons ���� excellent work. that doctor was so calm.

    Spare a thought for the mother who would have been on the way to the hospital receiving a call like that ��

  • Only the people who have been raised by narcissist parent or parents can know the real trauma….. The pain is unreal when it is your own parent..

  • My mom is not willing to change. She expects everyone to do as she wishes, can’t see her own mistakes, manipulative with our feelings, constantly feels sorry for herself,.. it’s awful

  • I think you REALLY need to rethink or recreate this video….if someone is contacting you about this kind of thing and there’s a potential the parents are emotionally abusive (with or without meaning to) are generally not going to be willing to change, or listen, or care about the kids negative feelings towards them, so basically everything you said in this video was a bit way too optimistic on the parents side

  • I started crying almost Immediately, no one should have to go through that critical moment im life ���������� thank GOD he survived

  • Even though most of the time it’s not my parents actually being mean or yelling at me nowadays I think they might be one of the main triggers for my ocd. My mom drove my brother out of the house for a minor mistake that I probably would’ve made as well in a situation of no support or reasonableness from any adult in his life. Then when he tried to talk it out she literally laughed at him, called him names, and badmouthed him to almost everyone around until he called her immature at which point she told everyone he abused her. I love my mom and like to think I always will but I’m 99% sure she’s emotionally immature as she’s been acting in similar and extremely frustrating ways to me, never admitting fault, irrational anger, self victimization, etc. for years. Meanwhile my old man has dealt with it for so long (either that or he just naturally doesn’t care which is a lot scarier) he either enables or ignores the drama that directly impacts his kids. Not only that he sometimes ignores stuff that I’d think is not reasonable in any sense to ignore like my multiple mental health issues. I’m extremely grateful to have support from a lot of other places, and hope to be independent in three years. In the mean time I’m trying to decide what to do with my parents before and after that point. love your videos kati, this was pretty helpful.

  • I tried going zero contact with my family and I lasted a year and it nearly killed me literally. They do not respect ANY boundaries I try lay doesn’t work. The day off my grandmother’s death she used it as an excuse to blast the shit through me about my own parenting ( of which she knows nothing!) And then hung up on me. I’m so sick of her dramatic, narcissistic drama. It never ends. It’s exhausting. I just want a quiet NORMAL bloody life. I don’t understand why that is so much to ask for! And why is it our generation apparently can’t get ANY respect from our own damn parents????

  • My life is a fucking mess right now. So my parents are divorced and they hate each other. I’m getting a nose surgery and me and my dad have been seeing the doctor without my mom because I’m sick, and we need to see if my surgery needs to be delayed. So my mom got mad because apparently we “excluded her”. I didn’t understand shit about why. She literally called my doctor and screamed at him, telling him that she could find another doctor. I couldn’t believe it. I’m so fucking ashamed. I mean yesterday I went too see the guy with my dad and everything was great. And the doctor has always been so helpful. I’m going through some anxiety right now because I am supposed to see the doctor on Monday with my dad. Now I am not. My dad doesn’t know shit about this ☠️ Someone help me

  • My therapist didn’t guide me through dealing with the hard stuff, and he assumed that because I didn’t take the initiative (I didn’t even know where to begin in addressing all my trauma and mental illnesses stuff) it meant that I actually had nothing I was struggling with and no reason to be in therapy.
    The third time he tried to argue that maybe I didn’t need therapy (after half a year of seeing him and realising that he was kinda trash anyway) I just totally lied and said everything was fine to get out of having to see him ever again. New therapist appointment tomorrow, this person says they’re trained in trauma stuff so they ought to be better:P

  • hey Kati thank you for this video it has help me understand my situation in more ways than one. This is a great idea to do with trigger.

  • Hey, could you do a video about “dismissive avoidant disorder”, the symptoms and how to resolve it. I find your videos very helpful.

  • The words that literally made me cry not joking made me cry a lot is “what if I don’t wake up” I felt so bad no one deserves to die people need to have a good life imagine getting told your going to die during your childhood! Childhood is meant to be the best part if life I’m so glad hes alive

  • It’s worth remembering that you were shit at walking to begin with too. Give yourself permission to be a little bit rubbish at whatever your voice says you can’t. Also, speaking of Scotland, Irn Bru recently had one of their ads banned: Be a Can, not a Can’t.:p

  • Sometimes, living with your parents is not possible. Sometimes the only option you have is to move out, and move on. Cut off ties. Yes they are your parents, but they are still people at the end of the day. If they aren’t trying to change. You can make people change, or get better. Sometimes separation is key.

  • This is the shittiest advice I’ve ever heard. She is clearly having a communication problem where her parents are not willing to listen to her.. They could be narcissistic which makes it worse where they will probably deny her feelings..Thats why shes got the trigger.. not because she simply needs to prepare a speech.. I did that when i first watched this video and they invalidated every single thing that threw me in a spiral of depression and hopelessness. so thanks

  • I’m almost 30 and my mum caused a numerous mental illnesses in me and she enjoys triggering them. I saw her smirk, when she made me breakdown once again.
    Sorry Kati, I can’t agree with you on this one.

  • Also add that if you have parent’s that have suffered childhood abuse/rape/sexual abuse/verbal abuse/ physical abuse or any type of abuse, the parent’s might accidentally pass on what was done to them to their child unintentionally. Most of the time that parent is not aware of their own actions & might not know how to heal themselves unfortunately passing on abuse/trauma to their child(ren). There are many reasons why parent’s are the way they are and unless you find out what happened to them in the past, you might never know. My mom accidentally did this to me but I forgave her for her actions in the past and am still self healing at the age of 26��

  • I had binge eating disorder and I don’t visit my family at the moment as they make it uncomfortable dog everywhere. I cannot face having my limited eating experience spoiled. I put it off till later. I have panic attacks travelling very weak at times. I feel sad as I want to know my parents. will avoid New years as it will be a dinner and dog going ballistic outside the door.

  • Also add that if you have parent’s that have suffered childhood abuse/rape/sexual abuse/verbal abuse/ physical abuse or any type of abuse, the parent’s might accidentally pass on what was done to them to their child unintentionally. Most of the time that parent is not aware of their own actions & might not know how to heal themselves unfortunately passing on abuse/trauma to their child(ren). There are many reasons why parent’s are the way they are and unless you find out what happened to them in the past, you might never know. My mom accidentally did this to me but I forgave her for her actions in the past and am still self healing at the age of 26��

  • From experience people who have good relationships with their parents just can’t understand what’s it’s like to have abusive parents. She has said she talks to her mom daily and they have a good relationship so maybe that’s why she’s saying that.

    I had a therapist who was helping me cope with having a textbook narcissist father and she also had a narcissist father and spent a lot of our session time a
    Talking about her one pain to the point that it was a problem for me and I stopped seeing her. Maybe she adopted some narcissistic traits ����‍♀️
    Anyway therapists are not perfect

  • My mother always puts her priorities before mine and my brothers.. I’m really bad at math so I try to take time to do my homework and get help but she always says that I should just be able to do it in the car but I can never focus in the car because I get motion sick really easily.

    Ever since she and my dad divorced she became a narcissist. The man she married was a family
    friend and they started dating when he was still married to his wife (who died of cancer). And she couldn’t speak or process anything which makes it much worse.

    My brother has autism and my step dad is super tough with him. Like when he won’t get up right away hell pick him up by his arm or leg and yell at him. My mom doesn’t believe us when we tell her either.

    It really makes me mad and I can’t do anything because I’m only 12. I would ask my dad if I could do something like therapy because my dad has had depression ever since he was a kid so he understands. But he doesn’t have any spare money.

    I would ask my mom but she would be like “Oh, why do you need that?” or “Ranae, you can talk to me.” She knows I don’t trust her. I think I might have depression or ocd and it just ejakdkgkbaksfkeieh!!!!1!!!

  • Wow the first question made me realize how shitty my therapist is lol. She just makes me talk and doesn’t prompt me or anything. I end up sitting in silence fidgeting.

  • What I actually do (as you mentioned), I make a plan.
    My plan is focuses on my experiences with them, like: pasive agresiveness, harsh criticism and projecting.
    I like observe who in my family does what, and then I prepare myself emotionally to “not react” and/or respond in a way that won’t hurt me and them.
    I tell myself “they are free to do what they want but their attitude can’t control mine”.
    When someone tries to use shame and /or guild to get me to do things, I check with myself and remind myself that God loves me and that I love myself to.
    When I try to explain to any of my family members how I feel, and they don’t want to listen, I ask myself if am seeking for validation or help (it’s usuall validation). I also ask if this person is able to supply my need (usually not, they are hurting too so when I understand that I can try to forgive them) and last but not leastI spend time alone: reflecting and getting my thoughts together before interacting with them.

    Long story short: being aware of myself and my sorroundings, forgiving/letting go and reminding myfelf who I am.

  • Why not tell the girl to rent a place with other roommates. Isn’t moving back home playing the financial victum/infantizing oneself? Grant it, my home has never changed. as if the kids never left because we all live and know this is still their primary home.

  • I’m glad to see that I’m not alone. When I spoke up about there abuse, both of my parents went on a slandering spree, went on speaking on things that weren’t true, twisting the story around so that they’re the victim, then turns my entire family against me, not to mention, neighbors, friends and strangers! I’ve come to the conclusion that after many attempts to therapy and talking and intervention, I decided to go no contact. It sucks and I know that on top of my family being displeased due to their rumors, I will be looked down upon from many people. They’re just so good at making themselves look like great parents and that they’re doing their best when they actually bully me behind closed doors. no one will believe me because of their age and because they’re parents smh. I honestly can’t wait to break free from this narcissistic family

  • I’m currently stuck at my mom’s house and it’s so hard. I feel myself falling deeper and deeper into a depression slump. I don’t have the money to go anywhere else, but I’m literally at the point where I’m about to take off hitch-hiking and be homeless because that’s better than this.

  • My moms behaviors been way worse since I’ve been diagnosed with anxiety and depression, which really confuses me bc she has bipolar disorder herself and her side of the family is the one with several mental illnesses, she has been WAY more abusive and triggering for me in several ways so I really do think you have to redo this video without being that optimistic on the parents side

  • Half of it you you kept on speaking about advertising yourself…. Did not help… Came to see because of the thumbnail but really disappointed coz you shifted away from the topic.

  • Thank god he made it through. I just bawled watching him cry and tell his mom he loved her. So happy for the great outcome now no more fighting! U seem like an amazing guy and deserve the best.

  • Press in 1993:
    “Hi Berries, you are low rock and alternative folk music. It’s impossible you are going to a Top5 rock song in History. Linger is a great love song, but hard rock / heavy rock is for Deep Purple, LED Zeppeling, Aerosmith, Metallica… hahahahaha”

    Berries:
    “Are you sure?”

  • If possible, try to patch things up with Ellie, but be careful. There are some friends that would take advantage of the state you’re in to get you to do whatever they want with no intention of forgiveness. People like that are best left forgotten. Make sure Ellie isn’t one of them. If that fails, then all I can say is try to move on with your life as much as possible. If your parents were so quick to disown you after you got them arrested for something they did, it makes me question how much they really care about you. They may have used you as an excuse to justify their actions since they’re providing for their daughter.

  • HELP! so my mother doesnt really care or feel bad when I cry ��… I’m the oldest and I get treated real badly I miss my dad (hes in jail) and all she tells me is you don’t even really know your dad! I’ve seen my dad, been around my dad, spent hours with my father do what makes her say that ��. I get very angry I have no one to talk to because everytime I talk to someone I think they think I’m weird or something and do I just keep my feelings inside I know that’s bad but no one feels my pain I know that if I don’t talk to anyone no one can help me but I don’t know where to start ��I’m only 13 and I do a lot I get put down a lot and I get called stupid! I’m only 13 and im stressing! I’m only 13 and I’m so depressed! ��BUT I’M ONLY 13 my mother does not really care she has 8 kids and I don’t feel like talking to her… Me and my mother was really close but now we bearly talk ��… But I’m ok with that

  • U need to see your parents and let them explain better. And Elle is ungrateful she should have thanked u after all you helped her to find her brother

  • My dad just doesn’t care… honestly, he said that if I lived in his home place, he would’ve called his friend out to finish me off ��
    I don’t know how I feel about my dad talking to me like that ����������������

  • Malignant somatic narcissist is my dad….should I just go no contact… or give him supply (fake supply) just saying I believe you…

  • I have this to I don’t like a lot of food and I get bullied ): but I do not mind that I am sad but also happy that I have this because people are
    Supposed to love the problem they have so I sometimes try to eat some different food so this is my story I hope you like it because I do (:

  • It’s worth remembering that you were shit at walking to begin with too. Give yourself permission to be a little bit rubbish at whatever your voice says you can’t. Also, speaking of Scotland, Irn Bru recently had one of their ads banned: Be a Can, not a Can’t.:p

  • How do you encourage someone who needs help but is adamant about not going/insists they don’t have a problem (even though the anger issues is what broke us up)

  • How do I convince my parents to go to family therapy with me? I’ve had enough. I’m scared to bring it up because they would probably laugh at me and use it as an opportunity to verbally attack me and put me down. How do I approach them?

  • I know of many parents that manipulate their children into fulfilling their wishes, and they are never satisfied. Honestly, parents can be very selfish. It doesn’t matter if they think that that is what is right for their childrenthe reason why they think that is because it is what they want, so obviously it is right.

  • At 5:30, that sounds like what we have been learning about in the hospital: radical acceptance. That is one of the most common techniques that they want us to do. Along with distracting and self soothing.

  • How do I get over being yelled at at work, my boss didn’t know me, but I can see I’m way too emotional… I have a mans job, and I tried to let him know I have CPTSD, and I fear I have bpd… how do I control my emotions, I can’t stand all the ppl looking at me when I got yelled at… today was the worst, I’m a casual longshoreman for 10 years and I didn’t do that job before, then I feel guilty for being a big baby crying…. I’m triggered… and I can’t connect with ppl…. what should I do to get help?

  • My stepdad is my living trigger. He abused me and my brother through childhood and molested me as a teenager. I still live with him and it’s hell.

  • My mom be seeming angry and or ignored by me when I try to open up to her about my needs and want, but she POWER through and listen to me then she will give me her best advice.

  • Dealing with toxic parents: grey rock. Smile and nod a LOT. Don’t take their shit on. Most of their complaints about you are things that they haven’t worked on themselves.

  • I have a strong belief in getting the TOXIC people out of my life. Unfortunately this had to include my own Mum. I left home at 15, joined the army at 20 and now I’m writing this at age 40. I have tried all of my life to have a healthy relationship with her. I tried a year after I had joined the army, then again two years after that, then again when I was pregnant with my first child and so on. Each time was further and further apart. She is 73 now and still says horrible things to me and about my brother (who is in jail). She has never (and I doubt will ever) accepted any responsibility for her abusive behaviour throughout our lives. My psychologist suspects she is a narcissist. I still love her because she is my mum but I’ve had to accept that I can’t have a relationship with her. I will tell my mum I love her and say goodbye at her funeral.

  • The people that I live with literally drew me to selfharm and because of one other reason that happened to me 11 years ago for 3 years

  • My mother still sees the rebellious teenager but in reality what sits in front of her is a broken spirit and a broken heart that cannot help himself at this time how can I get her to see that and not the rebellious teenager now that’s what she she’s not the mental changes that has happened at this pointwhen I take pills it’s not addiction it’s I do it with the strong hope to go to slepp and never wake up

  • I wanna be a neurosurgeon. I guess I’ll handle patient deaths pretty well since I didn’t cry one bit. But, something tells me it’ll be a whole lot more different. You don’t feel responsible when you watch sad videos. You do feel responsible when a person dies at your hands. But damn, the sensation of relief when I found out that the dude had survived!

  • It is very unhelpful to view abuse as someone ‘doing their best’. As a victim of childhood abuse, it makes me feel like the abuse is not being taken seriously because they are ‘did their best’ in the eyes of others. Apparently including you, Kati. I am truly dissapointed by this video.

  • If this is true, than my advice to u is: go to elle, do something that u did when u were friends, give her something that she likes, xplain everything 2 her n Michelle, im sure dey will understand, elle will understand if she was ever ur BEST FRIEND, ok? I’m really sorry for u, I know wht it’s like! I made someone my best friend n she betrayed me so badly! She even blackmailed me, so yeah, I know how Elle feels, I know how u feel, I hav xperinced dis twice, (with 2 different people) so I get it. Pls take my advice, n surely share a comment on ur own if it works, my best wishes for u, n once again, very sorry, really very sorry

  • What to do if I live in a society where I live with my parents till I get married so I am 33 years old and still live with my dad, and during quarantine this is driving me crazy ������

  • If she were my daughter I would have had her plant and grow a garden with me. I would have taken her camping, foraging for food and building things together, learning survival skills and working up a big appetite. I would have even taken her to a sweat lodge and peyote meeting and gotten her in balance with nature as much as possible but I wouldn’t have pressured her and made it into a big issue that traumatized her even more.

  • My mother has always been controlling and dominating, which led me to find friends who do the same to me and it even gave me intimacy issues.
    I had been trying to work it out on my own but it never did help. went to a therapist, who made the whole session all about me being gay, even though, I told that had never been an issue with me.
    I visit home once in a year… and prefer not to stay at home for more than 5 days.
    I am keeping away from all such friends who were toxic. but it has left me with feeling of emptiness in me.

  • I told them several times, they say I’m being difficult and get all offended and angry!

    I’ve said it calmly, used the “I feel” instead of “you”. They just don’t get it and see nothing wrong with what they do.

  • hey Kati thank you for this video it has help me understand my situation in more ways than one. This is a great idea to do with trigger.

  • I felt like a burden to my parents especially my dad. I’d always turn on the air conditioner because I’d get hot and sweaty easily even though the fan is on. I feel so uncomfortable being sweaty so I just can’t stop. I feel so bad because he have to pay much more on the bill because of me. He’s a good dad but i’m just not good enough. I wish i die sooner so he don’t have to pay too much he’s already too old and have many scars on his body from working and i’m just here sitting and playing games doing nothing good for my future i’m just a lazy rock and i’m not even perform that good in school but I still would ask him for something. i’m such a useless daughter i don’t even know what i want to do with my future anymore i don’t know what i want to be i can’t imagine my future i just can wait for my death

  • I’ve spent the past day watching a bunch of these “So-and-so reacts to The Cranberries’ Zombie” vids.

    Broadly speaking, there are only two responses. First, stunned silence. Second, the reviewer starts blubbing before the end of the first chorus.

    It’s been emotional.

  • My mom and step dad dad are major triggers for me. I have epilepsy along with my mental health issues and stress is my biggest trigger. My mom is an agoraphobic and my step dad is a narcissist pedophile who has verbally abused my mom and me and my bros for over 20 years. My mom makes me feel guilty for not going there any more and so does my brothers despite the tole it takes on my mental heath. I spent 20+ years trying to get her away from him and she wont go, If I stand any chance of restoring my mental health I need to keep toxic people out witch as sad as it is to say means extremely limiting my ex posher to my mom and bro’s I fear. I do love my mom very much this has been very hard on me.

  • I had surgery yesterday but for my stomach it happens to a lot of kids but hearing him have brain surgery and him getting a risk of death is very scary.

  • I get so frustrated because my parents don’t believe me when I say I have panic attacks and I get so anxious with the only idea of talking to them about my possible depression… The worst part is that my mom is a psycologist and my dad a physician…

  • It is very unhelpful to view abuse as someone ‘doing their best’. As a victim of childhood abuse, it makes me feel like the abuse is not being taken seriously because they are ‘did their best’ in the eyes of others. Apparently including you, Kati. I am truly dissapointed by this video.

  • I’m 32 years old and it makes me feel bad that I still live with my mother she doesn’t believe that she thinks I’m just using her and I’m being rebellious it hurts me so bad that I can’t cry

  • Doesn’t matter if they’re “doing the best they can” at the act of parenting. That comes second to simply loving the child. A loving parent acts in a way that cares for the child’s wellbeing in all aspects (physically, mentally, etc). There are definitely parents who do not love their child.

  • I had 5 brain surgeries as a kid 2 when I was 8 and 3 when I was 14. I never worried about not waking up. All I thought about was getting rid of the excruciating pain I was constantly in. When I woke up the pain was even worse it felt like someone had been beating me in the head with a baseball bat.

  • I started crying almost Immediately, no one should have to go through that critical moment im life ���������� thank GOD he survived

  • Thank god he made it through. I just bawled watching him cry and tell his mom he loved her. So happy for the great outcome now no more fighting! U seem like an amazing guy and deserve the best.

  • My parents get worse over time-at first the boundaries aren’t needed, but then more and more they add back the gaslighting and passive-aggressive remarks. Basically, they don’t put up with different mindsets, feelings, world views, or much of anything. We get along on a practical level, but forbid that you don’t want to be insulted or have things you care about be considered or respected. Assertiveness makes things worse. Trying to get diplomatic dialogue makes things worse. They can’t do anything wrong, therefore any differences mean it’s my wrong, even for things that have no right or wrong. I think younger me had the right idea of being a recluse instead of being a whole, equally valuable human being. On the plus side, my chronic illness I’ve had as an adult is to a point I can work, albeit home-based freelance work. But I do have hope that I can move away with financial independence. The last time I left was to move in with a different family member, but she turned out to be full-blown personality disorder-level narcissist-that was scary. But at least some of her traits were super obvious versions of my parents’ subtle ones, so it’s easier to see through my parents’ manipulations.

  • I think you REALLY need to rethink or recreate this video….if someone is contacting you about this kind of thing and there’s a potential the parents are emotionally abusive (with or without meaning to) are generally not going to be willing to change, or listen, or care about the kids negative feelings towards them, so basically everything you said in this video was a bit way too optimistic on the parents side

  • https://youtu.be/KXglbtShiRA Check this out. You won’t regret it. You’re worthy and amazing and don’t let people or small things make you feel horrible. Don’t waste your life. Live it to the fullest ❤️

  • I’ve have always been terrified that I will not wake up after surgery. I cannot imagine dealing with that at age 16. I have tears in my eyes now.

  • Thanks for making over 30k dollars over a kid crying we all clearly wanted u to make money off a 16 year old thinking hes about to die

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  • I thought that I was the only saddest person on the earth and neither God nor my family loves me but I guess everyone is going through something bad. I guess everyone wished that if I was a boy it would be wonderful. But they didn’t think about how I feel listening to this. I felt unwanted by them ever since I was little my father beat my mother. My sister and me….. Even today he didn’t change I feel so suffocated in this house…. My father is selfish and my mother just put on a blindfold… I want to die but I’m too scared to hurt myself…… I don’t even know what will be my future……I’m so broken that it’s hard to even survive…..

  • I don’t remember much about my childhood.
    It’s just really hard for me to remember how it was, but somethings I still remember.
    Like, my father became violent and started chasing me in the house (I was really little, maybe six or five? I’m not sure) just because I didn’t want to read a little book about school stuff. And then I don’t remember if managed to catch me or not, I don’t remember.
    But at some point he locked himself in his and mom’s bedroom, and didn’t want to get out because I had to apologize, and my mom blamed me too, after she came back, and just said that I had to apologize so the story would finally end.
    And there was that time, I was like nine years old, and he wouldn’t let me go to a friend’s house for a few hours, he dind’t even told me why, he just didn’t want to drive me there. And he kept on behaving like this, only with me.
    He never wanted for me to go and stay outside, he would complain everytime I asked for him to drive to the cinema (which wasn’t so often, I’ve always had trouble at making friends) but if my big brother asked, he wouldn’t complain much and drive him where his friends were. There was the time when he yelled at my mom “Let her go out, and I’l beat her” and he always scared me to hell. And then one day I asked him why he did all of this, why he would always say “No” for everything in my goddamn life, and he didn’t answer me. He told me to shut up, but I wouldn’t (he took me forcefully away from some friends that asked me if I wanted to go to the MacDonalds with them. I had told him who my friends were, how long I was going to be out, because they always wanted me to tell everything about all the people I was with).
    So he grabbed me from my hair, and just roughly shoved me in my room and locked me in there.
    He never said “Sorry” he never tried to do anything. He would just stay in front of the TV and he was frickin’ obsessed with me.
    Finally, my mom is getting a separation and she wants a divorce and everything, and he’s not in the house anymore. He blamed me for the lack of relationshiip between the two of us, he said to my brother (not to me) that he did what he did to protect me (he didn’t even admitted that he was a total asshole. It’s always been like this, he’s right, I’m wrong)
    And so I stopped answering the phone when he called. I don’t want to talk to him, I don’t want him in my life.
    My relatives don’t know shit about what he did, so they’re all “He’s your father, youll talk with him” and shit like that.
    But I really don’t want to. That man shamed me and my body. He talked shit about any friend I had, he didn’t love me, he was so fucking obsessed. He wanted me to give him kisses and hugs, even after he treated me like shit. He would act like nothing happened, or like everything was my fault, and he still wanted me to kiss him, hug him. And I never did, and he got angry about that.
    Even my mother wants me to call him, but just because he blames her for me hating him. Like he did nothing.
    I was always so fucking scared of that man. The way he wuold look at me sometimes, it mad me want to hide somewhere. One time he was an asshole to my brother (who plays a game called Magic) and I didn’t really think of what I was doing, I just got mad because my brother looked so down, after he was all smiling with me (and it0s rare because we don’t have a fucking relationship, I live basically on my own for christ’s sake), so I got up, took the awfully excuse of a human being by an arm, and shoved him out of the room. Kind of like when he did it to. But I’m small, he’s huge, so it was difficult. And i closed the door and when I understood what I did, and he was on the door yelling at me, I got su fucking scared, and I stayed on the door to block it, and my brother didn’t thouth much about it and said to let him in, and when I did, I ran to my brother so I could hide somewhere.

    My dad’s always been like a big issue, for me. My mom made her mistakes too, all the pressure she put on me was awfull, but meh, with her I got along pretty well.
    But him? Thank fucking goodness I don’t have him in the same house anymore. I was so tired. So, so tired.
    I still am, and I’m struggling with self-harm and other problems, and I want to think just about these problems and how to move on, I don’t even want to think about him, Not anymore. He cries for me? Let him cry. I cried enough for to many people, that asshole too. And it was so not worth it and I’m tired of it.
    Let him cry, maybe it’ll open his eyes.

    I’m sorry for this hude comment, and bad english. I needed to rant about this, and I need to go back to my therapist, since I stopped without giving a reason, but I was stupid, and things got so much worse then betterI’ll stop. Okay.
    Have a goodnight!

  • Sorry but parents don’t do the best they can, they do whatever they believe is best from their point of view… Usually without any evaluation of its impact upon their child. That and most parents are on autopilot most of the time! Additionally, few seem to do any self reflecting on their point of view and whether it’s in line with current thinking or just plain nuts! I hate both my parents btw, but I guess you had already figured that out �� I wish I had been adopted… Because just MAYBE I may have had some love then!

  • I was only 12 then my family came to know that I had tumour in my brain… At one hospital Dr said only 50 50 chances of survival and face could be damaged at one side and the cost could be 2 lacks after listening of low chances of survival, we went to another hospital there Dr said 98 percent of chances and cost is also less that is 1.25 lacks
    Now I m in my late 18 I had undergone brain, spine, neck surgery and also radiation in my brain still I have a tumour in my brain and several tumours in my spine plz pray for my health… I beg u. And also I don’t have enough strength to do any work for a long time also I m deaf. ������but I don’t criticize God because of my health… I m so thankful of him that he gave eyes to see the beautiful world and much more.. I want to say dont critics God because of small problems.. Be happy in what u have always help others����

  • I was In Tears I couldn’t even stop crying I would never wanna lose my 4 year old brother and if that was my brother i would hope he is oaky so glad He is alive and alright Thank You God for Keeping This Young man alive ����

  • Thanks for making over 30k dollars over a kid crying we all clearly wanted u to make money off a 16 year old thinking hes about to die

  • Im 11 now and have a whole life ahead of me so do a lot of you guys. And just the thought of someone saying goodbye to anyone they love beings tears to my eyes

  • Haven’t seen any comments congratulating the Surgeons ���� excellent work. that doctor was so calm.

    Spare a thought for the mother who would have been on the way to the hospital receiving a call like that ��

  • When i watched this vidoe idk if spelled right but it made me feel kinda better that im scared of chickens or eating an animal makes me feel really bad that im eating a live aniamal

  • Those people who disliked this video are the ones who never know the feeling when your whole family hates you and you can’t do anything just watching this and crying

  • If she were my daughter I would have had her plant and grow a garden with me. I would have taken her camping, foraging for food and building things together, learning survival skills and working up a big appetite. I would have even taken her to a sweat lodge and peyote meeting and gotten her in balance with nature as much as possible but I wouldn’t have pressured her and made it into a big issue that traumatized her even more.

  • Parents deny therapy
    Kids at school: help her get the therapy she needed.
    Teachers: sets up therapy and brings in food for her
    Well done to he kids and teachers.

  • Only my father cared about me only he loves me…. Few months ago he died…. And I’m struggling too much to live with my mom and my siblings…. Everybody sees me as a burden…. It’s hurts….

  • 5:43 well no shit, it was their choice to be a parent and they can’t go around acting like they did a us favour by giving birth to us. If you’re thinking of having a child you should be completely prepared for anything, whatever comes your way. Having a child is HUGE responsibility and not just an obligation for a married couple. If you’re not prepared, don’t have one. It’s that simple. Don’t go on to ruin somebody else’s life because of your incompetence. You have no. fucking. right.

  • The Army hoo woo now the army will beat the giant monster lookalike a girl no wait the giant monster pick up one the army men and OMG �� WTH WHY in 7:12 poor army

  • OK so, you need to move on from the past and in order to do that, you need to make things right.
    Go talk to Ella and try and talk to her giving her the true story so she might at least talk to you then go visit your parents in prison. Try and make amends. They do love you even if they don’t want to show it
    After you do both of those things, you can put them in the past. This event will no longer haunt you and it will become a distant memory.

  • OH MY GOD I’M IN THE SAME SITUATION AS THAT GIRL TBH EXCEPT I ALSO HAVE A DRIVING PHOBIA AND NO LICENSE AND LOANS COMING UP UGH PLUS EMOTIONAL INSTABILITY

  • My parents think that my therapist and my boyfriend convinced me that I suffer from anxiety and depression and that it’s not real even though I’ve had these issues years before I even knew my boyfriend and my therapist. I can’t wait to move out

  • Why would Elle think u were in on it if u called the police to fix it and let your mom and dad go to jail!?!?!?!?!? And even if she still thought u were part of it she should at least let u explain or GET COMMON SENSE!!!!!! SHE WOULD NEVER DO THAT SHES YOUR BEST FRIEND YOU SHOULD KNOW SHE WOULDNT DO THAT TO AN INNOCENT KID WHO IS YOUR BEST FRIENDS BROTHER

    THIS IS JUDT MSKING ME MAD �� KNOW THAT ELLE ISNT BEING A FRIEND

  • Well Anne really had a bad time. What her parents did is really wrong. But Anne did the right thing. She needs to move forward through the future. She still have her grandparents. She must stay brave. Life like a book of chapters. This incidents was one of her nightmare. Come through in. Their is more to find out in our lives. Just be happy Anne❤️

  • This is NOT how you treat picky eaters, people with this condition, mental illnesses, or people in general. It’s mean and stupid and frowned down upon. ����

  • As my thoughts, she do that she should. Sometimes the world is scarry than we thought. She must have a great difficult time to do it.

  • If this is true, than my advice to u is: go to elle, do something that u did when u were friends, give her something that she likes, xplain everything 2 her n Michelle, im sure dey will understand, elle will understand if she was ever ur BEST FRIEND, ok? I’m really sorry for u, I know wht it’s like! I made someone my best friend n she betrayed me so badly! She even blackmailed me, so yeah, I know how Elle feels, I know how u feel, I hav xperinced dis twice, (with 2 different people) so I get it. Pls take my advice, n surely share a comment on ur own if it works, my best wishes for u, n once again, very sorry, really very sorry

  • Timeless video, timeless lyric and a timeless performance that transcends the Irish conflict. Today we still have too many zombies willing to crucify children just for the politics ‘in your head’.

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  • well pickey eaters are scared if this because they can’t eat new foods and stiff like that! but i know this because you’re skinny and fin but not fat because you weren’t and you were skinny

  • Trouble is my parents are quite two faced and no one gets it it’s really hard to explain and I just don’t get on with them like sometimes no matter hard you try in life sometimes you just don’t like certain people and that’s me with my parents and I can’t wait till I’m 18 go go off to uni

  • HELP! so my mother doesnt really care or feel bad when I cry ��… I’m the oldest and I get treated real badly I miss my dad (hes in jail) and all she tells me is you don’t even really know your dad! I’ve seen my dad, been around my dad, spent hours with my father do what makes her say that ��. I get very angry I have no one to talk to because everytime I talk to someone I think they think I’m weird or something and do I just keep my feelings inside I know that’s bad but no one feels my pain I know that if I don’t talk to anyone no one can help me but I don’t know where to start ��I’m only 13 and I do a lot I get put down a lot and I get called stupid! I’m only 13 and im stressing! I’m only 13 and I’m so depressed! ��BUT I’M ONLY 13 my mother does not really care she has 8 kids and I don’t feel like talking to her… Me and my mother was really close but now we bearly talk ��… But I’m ok with that

  • Que en paz descanse. Dolores como me hubiera gustado escuchar. Un dúo de ella y Ed Roland. De collective soul. Dos voces inigualables.

  • That BAD WOLVES song makes me furious…. I hate them, let’s now listen to the real song, with real emotions and a real political agenda… IRA sucks

  • Your words echoes an eternity!!! We are doomed to repeat history…if we can just learn this world is enough for all to prosper,, no color before the word life,, it is all a Devine blessing from a power,much Greater then ourselves!!! Iv proved you and crew for Decades… I pray Jesus protects us all from evildoers. Love spread over the world is only thing that can save this planet

  • I suffered extreme abuse with both parents. I Have CPTSD. Dad’s dead that energy is pass but he did cause MUCH harm (he tortured us). I’m the oldest, My poor middle brother suffers today. He self medicates with drugs. Mother always pushes my triggers. Now she’s alcoholic. She has multiple personalities. She wants what I have, she manipulates, she has dragged me into over 7 court actions over her delusions. I Keep trying, forgiving, digesting, moving on, trying to speak to her again like Jesus said but it’s hard. 5 years therapy HELPED, said I shouldn’t have any contact because mother gets orgasms over causing me pain and she’s likeley Psychopath just as father was. She picks and chooses who to control and who to harm. Right now that’s me, (and @ dozen others) and taking away grand kids by paying for my daughters (ex husbands attorney as example) Just so she can see them and RUB IT IN MY FACE and keep them from me. I really miss my grand daughters and other grand kids, but the exchange of knowing how they are is always a game All these games. As for my 2 daughters. Mother does best to control. 1 a sociopath who works closely with my mother who cut all ties to us so we let her FLY. The 2nd is struggling in a rehab over the divorce, serious health issues, and the LOSS of her beautiful daughters. My counselor said I have the sickest family on record of 2 counselors practice over 60 years. And my childhood was like war time, or Stockholm I guess, I did what I had to survive & God must have helped. I tried to go to another counselor a guy but he had his own agenda didn’t listen to me, & he had a HOLD BACK AGENDA to fix his perceptions of my case, I felt like he Gaslight me…. I was suffering badly and he would’t listen, instead he had an agenda, I felt abused again so I just stopped him. MY other lady counselor is retired, she helped process many stuffed memories. OK 1 court example, my mother also gave this 25 year old male a job & a house for rent, then paid for his attorney who raped my minor daughter! FYI My lady counselor of 5 years said both parents seem to be psychopaths who enjoyed torturing and causing pain, not all psychopaths are murders… When Mother keeps callings and texting sometimes I just freeze. And She is up to no good. Setting me up calling on speaker phone with witnesses trying to get information or things away from me. I moved 1200 miles away from her. She stated she would drive to my home and pick up my animal I need to give to her. I won’t do it. The same Animal she and the ex husband tried to get court documents to take away from me when we had it at my father in laws home. They also were going to just get it in the night. Forget about cops and judges and district attorneys, because they made friends with them & Keep getting ANYTHING they want in California! I called a politician on the collusion of the D.A> and Judge and Sheriff and she agreed collusion but nothing I can do. There ya go. And you haven’t even heard any of the worst of it. So speak about REALLY sick parents. You know the ones that get away WITH MURDERS (like dad) This video didn’t cover it. Thank you.

  • Lordy, depressed people don’t care about your happy travel. Or drumming up business engagements. If you want a video on your happy travels, have one, but don’t mess with depressed children seeking help.

  • Dolores la voce piu’ bella di tutti i tempi!!! Mitica,grazie per tutte le emozioni che ci regali ad ascoltare la tua musica, sei sempre viva per me!!!

  • I remember one of those real life ER shows that were popular back around 2000 and a kid was brought in after a vehicular accident and needed stitches in her face. She was young, 6-10 years. The kid starting singing this song to their ER doc and of course the doc was encouraging it because it kept their mind elsewhere instead of the trauma that was being addressed. Just wanted to say I hope that kid is doing great today and that doc was freaking great as well.

  • Уж сильно отрывок этой песни где-то с 1:30 похож на отрывок песни Quando non ci sei 1979 года итальянской Matia Bazar где-то с 0:50 https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=f3pCphhUaSU

  • Another head hangs lowly

    Child is slowly taken

    And the violence, caused such silence

    Who are we mistaken?

    But you see, it’s not me

    It’s not my family

    In your head, in your head, they are fighting

    With their tanks, and their bombs

    And their bombs, and their guns

    In your head, in your head they are crying

    In your head, in your head

    Zombie, zombie, zombie-ie-ie

    What’s in your head, in your head

    Zombie, zombie, zombie-ie-ie, oh

    Du, du, du, du

    Du, du, du, du

    Du, du, du, du

    Du, du, du, du

    Another mother’s breaking

    Heart is taking over

    When the violence causes silence

    We must be mistaken

    It’s the same old theme

    Since nineteen-sixteen

    In your head, in your head, they’re still fighting

    With their tanks, and their bombs

    And their bombs, and their guns

    In your head, in your head, they are dying

    In your head, in your head

    Zombie, zombie, zombie-ie-ie

    What’s in your head, in your head

    Zombie, zombie, zombie-ie-ie, oh oh oh oh oh oh oh ie-ie oh

  • Conocidos parecidos a músicos
    ��La bettina:Dolores O’Riordan de los Cranberries
    ��El jona: Freddy Mercury de Queen
    ��El Rodri: Charles Manson
    ��El Diego: jon Andreas de Dissection
    ��El José:kurt Cobain de Nirvana
    ��El indio:el rey lagarto el rey del sexo y del Rock es Jim Morrison
    ��El gordo rober: Max Cavalera de sepultura
    ��El ruso: Axel Rose de gun n roses
    ��El pelado: Billy Corgan de Smashing Punkis y por ahora la lista queda así…..

  • why didn’t dory story make this video and this isn’t 7-second riddle’s job and there are no riddles but the point is sooooooooooo sadddddddddddddddd

  • Who else listens to this song in 2020? I know I am…

    As a matter of fact… I think that all of us music artists should somehow make a full time collaboration; and make one like this song, ‘Zombie, by the Cranberries,’ in either late 2020, (just right before new years day ball drop as a grand finale of this fucked-up year that is 2020 ). Or, in early 2021 when hopefully things clear up with COVID-19 no longer existing… Overall, that would be an excellent idea, but it might be an issue due to social distancing this year

    -You know what, I think I might as well just be patient for once and hopefully, by the time 2021 or 2022 begins, this idea of mine can possibly be a thing!!!!!! Let’s just hope for the best to come, spread the word, it’s up to you, fingers cross, stay safe, and wear your seat belt. U•ェ•*U

  • My mom is not willing to change. She expects everyone to do as she wishes, can’t see her own mistakes, manipulative with our feelings, constantly feels sorry for herself,.. it’s awful

  • it thought that it would’ve been better if my family were better off with out me but they didn’t hate me they loved me. it’s just that my life is a fucking whore

  • My mom be seeming angry and or ignored by me when I try to open up to her about my needs and want, but she POWER through and listen to me then she will give me her best advice.

  • This gave me the confidence to tell my dad we need talk therapy about not realizing the abuse that my mom was doing and instigating. You Rock!

  • We’d get along great.. Reaching out. Your better and more informative than any locals a starvin artist and now I’m at a HUGE change… I will apply it immediately I just don’t know been around the wrong crowd misery likes company addiction no-one to reach to
    My whole town knows me always hoping to relate thab I’m in the zone. This and haters annoying fans don’t want to lie to them just because they support me. Detoxed 4/5 times went mission driven homeless don’t trust much can’t step out around the block trying to waste time via envy tempted to use again something i recognize as the grwatesr euphiria to think properly and thats when im content. What to do
    My body is still tight in my chest. I trust your opinion. I have a passion. Career flexibility commision due to my abilities

  • Уж сильно отрывок этой песни где-то с 1:30 похож на отрывок песни Quando non ci sei 1979 года итальянской Matia Bazar где-то с 0:50 https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=f3pCphhUaSU

  • I also had that problem. Parents never understand, they always think they can have their way by brute force. I had a serious phobia of many foods and nobody understood.
    They always just think you are being picky. I still won’t eat some foods because my parents made me eat them when I was younger. Parents, if your child is being picky it may not be what it seems, there is an equal chance that something else is going on. Brute force never works. It always leads to misery for all involved.

  • Only the people who have been raised by narcissist parent or parents can know the real trauma….. The pain is unreal when it is your own parent..

  • TW: Abuse

    I might seem all bright and happy on the outside, but on the inside, something is eating me alive I just have to tell anyone who will listen to me, I was abused by my very own sister, well there was another person who abused me so much worse than my own sister, this other person was my sister’s ex the father of her very own children. if the money or anything went missing in the house he would grab the tape and tape my legs and hands then he would lock me in the dark closet under lock and key all night long. sometimes I would go through the trash just to eat anything, one time he even forced me to get naked in front and take an ice-cold shower in the middle of winter. mind my sister didn’t do anything to stop him. another time he called me stupid and kicked me so damn hard that I couldn’t walk right for who knows how many days. other times he would make me bend over with my arms over my head for hours at a time without eating anything all day long. plus whenever he would bring me to my grandma’s house to spend the summer with her and my parents he would always tell me not to tell anyone anything that was going on. so whenever anyone in my family would ask me if they treat me nicely I would always yes they are treating me like a princess, I would hide all my pain behind a big smile. for years I prayed and prayed to be able to get out of that hell hole. trust me you don’t know all the abuse I went through for years at a time I didn’t even get to finish school. I’m doing much better now.

  • Question: How do people who come in contact with their trigger very often differ from those who don’t as much? For example, if someone was sexually assaulted and they see their assaulter every day, will they be able to heal from their trauma quicker because they are forced to constantly confront it, as opposed to someone who doesn’t see their assaulter that often?

  • I told them several times, they say I’m being difficult and get all offended and angry!

    I’ve said it calmly, used the “I feel” instead of “you”. They just don’t get it and see nothing wrong with what they do.

  • Based on the title of this video I hoped to gain some insight on this topic. All I heard was parents do the best they can. Really? That’s the oldest cliche in the book.

  • I tried going zero contact with my family and I lasted a year and it nearly killed me literally. They do not respect ANY boundaries I try lay doesn’t work. The day off my grandmother’s death she used it as an excuse to blast the shit through me about my own parenting ( of which she knows nothing!) And then hung up on me. I’m so sick of her dramatic, narcissistic drama. It never ends. It’s exhausting. I just want a quiet NORMAL bloody life. I don’t understand why that is so much to ask for! And why is it our generation apparently can’t get ANY respect from our own damn parents????

  • Que en paz descanse. Dolores como me hubiera gustado escuchar. Un dúo de ella y Ed Roland. De collective soul. Dos voces inigualables.

  • My therapist didn’t guide me through dealing with the hard stuff, and he assumed that because I didn’t take the initiative (I didn’t even know where to begin in addressing all my trauma and mental illnesses stuff) it meant that I actually had nothing I was struggling with and no reason to be in therapy.
    The third time he tried to argue that maybe I didn’t need therapy (after half a year of seeing him and realising that he was kinda trash anyway) I just totally lied and said everything was fine to get out of having to see him ever again. New therapist appointment tomorrow, this person says they’re trained in trauma stuff so they ought to be better:P

  • I get so frustrated because my parents don’t believe me when I say I have panic attacks and I get so anxious with the only idea of talking to them about my possible depression… The worst part is that my mom is a psycologist and my dad a physician…

  • My favorite therapist response: “and how does that make you feel……?” as they’re writing…… And not paying attention to the fact that you just told them how you feel. So you wanna know how I feel about the way I feel?

  • My stepdad is my living trigger. He abused me and my brother through childhood and molested me as a teenager. I still live with him and it’s hell.

  • TW: Abuse

    I might seem all bright and happy on the outside, but on the inside, something is eating me alive I just have to tell anyone who will listen to me, I was abused by my very own sister, well there was another person who abused me so much worse than my own sister, this other person was my sister’s ex the father of her very own children. if the money or anything went missing in the house he would grab the tape and tape my legs and hands then he would lock me in the dark closet under lock and key all night long. sometimes I would go through the trash just to eat anything, one time he even forced me to get naked in front and take an ice-cold shower in the middle of winter. mind my sister didn’t do anything to stop him. another time he called me stupid and kicked me so damn hard that I couldn’t walk right for who knows how many days. other times he would make me bend over with my arms over my head for hours at a time without eating anything all day long. plus whenever he would bring me to my grandma’s house to spend the summer with her and my parents he would always tell me not to tell anyone anything that was going on. so whenever anyone in my family would ask me if they treat me nicely I would always yes they are treating me like a princess, I would hide all my pain behind a big smile. for years I prayed and prayed to be able to get out of that hell hole. trust me you don’t know all the abuse I went through for years at a time I didn’t even get to finish school. I’m doing much better now.

  • I have so many friends and acquaintances at school…..but i still feel lonely. I feel quiet and….nothing compared to them. Every time I do one thing that doesn’t seem normal, I’m looked at like an irregular person. It’s crazy……..but this makes me think that we’ll become a strong generation. The perseverance we have…..the determination to raise our children differently than our parents raised us.

  • This is the shittiest advice I’ve ever heard. She is clearly having a communication problem where her parents are not willing to listen to her.. They could be narcissistic which makes it worse where they will probably deny her feelings..Thats why shes got the trigger.. not because she simply needs to prepare a speech.. I did that when i first watched this video and they invalidated every single thing that threw me in a spiral of depression and hopelessness. so thanks

  • From experience people who have good relationships with their parents just can’t understand what’s it’s like to have abusive parents. She has said she talks to her mom daily and they have a good relationship so maybe that’s why she’s saying that.

    I had a therapist who was helping me cope with having a textbook narcissist father and she also had a narcissist father and spent a lot of our session time a
    Talking about her one pain to the point that it was a problem for me and I stopped seeing her. Maybe she adopted some narcissistic traits ����‍♀️
    Anyway therapists are not perfect

  • Sorry but parents don’t do the best they can, they do whatever they believe is best from their point of view… Usually without any evaluation of its impact upon their child. That and most parents are on autopilot most of the time! Additionally, few seem to do any self reflecting on their point of view and whether it’s in line with current thinking or just plain nuts! I hate both my parents btw, but I guess you had already figured that out �� I wish I had been adopted… Because just MAYBE I may have had some love then!

  • I had binge eating disorder and I don’t visit my family at the moment as they make it uncomfortable dog everywhere. I cannot face having my limited eating experience spoiled. I put it off till later. I have panic attacks travelling very weak at times. I feel sad as I want to know my parents. will avoid New years as it will be a dinner and dog going ballistic outside the door.

  • im having the same problem. im gay and being from the black comminity gay is wrong and evil im 30 and can no longer be disrespected i want to go semi no contact! but i just stick around for the abuse. help!

  • Why is my life so horrible and lonely? I wish I could die…
    My family is against me especially my siblings.
    I have no one to keep secrets with besides myself.
    I rarely visit my grandparents so that isn’t enough to be on any side of me or my family, but I bet that they would be on my family’s side for sure.
    Plz help me…..

    Bye everyone, I’m killing myself…

  • My mother always puts her priorities before mine and my brothers.. I’m really bad at math so I try to take time to do my homework and get help but she always says that I should just be able to do it in the car but I can never focus in the car because I get motion sick really easily.

    Ever since she and my dad divorced she became a narcissist. The man she married was a family
    friend and they started dating when he was still married to his wife (who died of cancer). And she couldn’t speak or process anything which makes it much worse.

    My brother has autism and my step dad is super tough with him. Like when he won’t get up right away hell pick him up by his arm or leg and yell at him. My mom doesn’t believe us when we tell her either.

    It really makes me mad and I can’t do anything because I’m only 12. I would ask my dad if I could do something like therapy because my dad has had depression ever since he was a kid so he understands. But he doesn’t have any spare money.

    I would ask my mom but she would be like “Oh, why do you need that?” or “Ranae, you can talk to me.” She knows I don’t trust her. I think I might have depression or ocd and it just ejakdkgkbaksfkeieh!!!!1!!!

  • Wow the first question made me realize how shitty my therapist is lol. She just makes me talk and doesn’t prompt me or anything. I end up sitting in silence fidgeting.

  • What I actually do (as you mentioned), I make a plan.
    My plan is focuses on my experiences with them, like: pasive agresiveness, harsh criticism and projecting.
    I like observe who in my family does what, and then I prepare myself emotionally to “not react” and/or respond in a way that won’t hurt me and them.
    I tell myself “they are free to do what they want but their attitude can’t control mine”.
    When someone tries to use shame and /or guild to get me to do things, I check with myself and remind myself that God loves me and that I love myself to.
    When I try to explain to any of my family members how I feel, and they don’t want to listen, I ask myself if am seeking for validation or help (it’s usuall validation). I also ask if this person is able to supply my need (usually not, they are hurting too so when I understand that I can try to forgive them) and last but not leastI spend time alone: reflecting and getting my thoughts together before interacting with them.

    Long story short: being aware of myself and my sorroundings, forgiving/letting go and reminding myfelf who I am.

  • Why not tell the girl to rent a place with other roommates. Isn’t moving back home playing the financial victum/infantizing oneself? Grant it, my home has never changed. as if the kids never left because we all live and know this is still their primary home.

  • My father is very emotional abusive and i cant take much more. Always puts my down and treats me bad. I listen to music to sound him out but i hear it every day. Insults me about my hair, my body, he fat shames me. I had 9 attempts of suicide cause of his emotional abuse. My depression has gotten increasingly worse by the day I DONT KNOW WHAT TO DO AT THIS POINT!!!!:'(

  • I’m currently stuck at my mom’s house and it’s so hard. I feel myself falling deeper and deeper into a depression slump. I don’t have the money to go anywhere else, but I’m literally at the point where I’m about to take off hitch-hiking and be homeless because that’s better than this.

  • My parents not once cared about my feelings. Especially my mom, who just acted like a victim all the time. Making me feel blamed cause she married my dad and had me. Even though that was her problem, she could do anything she wanted she stayed with him cause she wanted. I never askedto be born. And the things i cared most they made sure to take away from me. Abandoning my pets, chicks, dogs and cats. Not locking my cats so they would get lost. They made sure not to wast one cent trying to protect my cats. And my cats cared more about me than they ever did. And now they are gone. I feel so sorry for it. They let them get poisoned and did nothing to justice. Never took my cats to ver cause they just cared as for material things and wouldnt waste money about my babies. I was so weak that i could even beg anymore. I am so regret that i didn’t fight for them hard enough. �� And then i couldn’t be happy in relationships, i didn’t knew what guys meanted tto be with me or not. I let guys use me cause all of the weak and depressed mind, and even got sexual assaulted and couldn’t get justice cause of what my parrnts would think or what the gossip would it be, that they only care about gossip. I hate my life

  • Half of it you you kept on speaking about advertising yourself…. Did not help… Came to see because of the thumbnail but really disappointed coz you shifted away from the topic.

  • Can you please continue the series it would be great to see more about her parents and their job I always wanted to see riddle series

  • I suffered extreme abuse with both parents. I Have CPTSD. Dad’s dead that energy is pass but he did cause MUCH harm (he tortured us). I’m the oldest, My poor middle brother suffers today. He self medicates with drugs. Mother always pushes my triggers. Now she’s alcoholic. She has multiple personalities. She wants what I have, she manipulates, she has dragged me into over 7 court actions over her delusions. I Keep trying, forgiving, digesting, moving on, trying to speak to her again like Jesus said but it’s hard. 5 years therapy HELPED, said I shouldn’t have any contact because mother gets orgasms over causing me pain and she’s likeley Psychopath just as father was. She picks and chooses who to control and who to harm. Right now that’s me, (and @ dozen others) and taking away grand kids by paying for my daughters (ex husbands attorney as example) Just so she can see them and RUB IT IN MY FACE and keep them from me. I really miss my grand daughters and other grand kids, but the exchange of knowing how they are is always a game All these games. As for my 2 daughters. Mother does best to control. 1 a sociopath who works closely with my mother who cut all ties to us so we let her FLY. The 2nd is struggling in a rehab over the divorce, serious health issues, and the LOSS of her beautiful daughters. My counselor said I have the sickest family on record of 2 counselors practice over 60 years. And my childhood was like war time, or Stockholm I guess, I did what I had to survive & God must have helped. I tried to go to another counselor a guy but he had his own agenda didn’t listen to me, & he had a HOLD BACK AGENDA to fix his perceptions of my case, I felt like he Gaslight me…. I was suffering badly and he would’t listen, instead he had an agenda, I felt abused again so I just stopped him. MY other lady counselor is retired, she helped process many stuffed memories. OK 1 court example, my mother also gave this 25 year old male a job & a house for rent, then paid for his attorney who raped my minor daughter! FYI My lady counselor of 5 years said both parents seem to be psychopaths who enjoyed torturing and causing pain, not all psychopaths are murders… When Mother keeps callings and texting sometimes I just freeze. And She is up to no good. Setting me up calling on speaker phone with witnesses trying to get information or things away from me. I moved 1200 miles away from her. She stated she would drive to my home and pick up my animal I need to give to her. I won’t do it. The same Animal she and the ex husband tried to get court documents to take away from me when we had it at my father in laws home. They also were going to just get it in the night. Forget about cops and judges and district attorneys, because they made friends with them & Keep getting ANYTHING they want in California! I called a politician on the collusion of the D.A> and Judge and Sheriff and she agreed collusion but nothing I can do. There ya go. And you haven’t even heard any of the worst of it. So speak about REALLY sick parents. You know the ones that get away WITH MURDERS (like dad) This video didn’t cover it. Thank you.

  • I don’t know if people can surpass the their phobias but I can tell you to start trying to love it and remained yourself even if your still scared that it keep alive you will defeat your fear

  • “We are so delighted with the news that Zombie has reached 1 Billion views on YouTube! �� We are sure Dolores has a big, proud smile on her face too.
    Thank you so much to all our fans around the world for supporting us over so many years.
    Hopefully you are all safe and well in this bizarre time and managing to find some hope and positivity in our music.” ❤️
    Fergal Lawler

  • I don’t know much about you guys… I can not feel any of you.. But trust me life can be better.. There is always a restart button in your mobile but never a reset button ( I know silly example). I don’t have much to say but I wish that each of you will get never ending love by somone ❤️������ and don’t think of dying ����plz guyzz

  • My dad just doesn’t care… honestly, he said that if I lived in his home place, he would’ve called his friend out to finish me off ��
    I don’t know how I feel about my dad talking to me like that ����������������

  • Malignant somatic narcissist is my dad….should I just go no contact… or give him supply (fake supply) just saying I believe you…

  • I’m almost 30 and my mum caused a numerous mental illnesses in me and she enjoys triggering them. I saw her smirk, when she made me breakdown once again.
    Sorry Kati, I can’t agree with you on this one.

  • As my thoughts, she do that she should. Sometimes the world is scarry than we thought. She must have a great difficult time to do it.

  • How do you encourage someone who needs help but is adamant about not going/insists they don’t have a problem (even though the anger issues is what broke us up)

  • How do I convince my parents to go to family therapy with me? I’ve had enough. I’m scared to bring it up because they would probably laugh at me and use it as an opportunity to verbally attack me and put me down. How do I approach them?

  • I know of many parents that manipulate their children into fulfilling their wishes, and they are never satisfied. Honestly, parents can be very selfish. It doesn’t matter if they think that that is what is right for their childrenthe reason why they think that is because it is what they want, so obviously it is right.

  • At 5:30, that sounds like what we have been learning about in the hospital: radical acceptance. That is one of the most common techniques that they want us to do. Along with distracting and self soothing.

  • How do I get over being yelled at at work, my boss didn’t know me, but I can see I’m way too emotional… I have a mans job, and I tried to let him know I have CPTSD, and I fear I have bpd… how do I control my emotions, I can’t stand all the ppl looking at me when I got yelled at… today was the worst, I’m a casual longshoreman for 10 years and I didn’t do that job before, then I feel guilty for being a big baby crying…. I’m triggered… and I can’t connect with ppl…. what should I do to get help?

  • my parents do try. i have told them how i feel and they havent changed. i try to not let them bother me. i want to remind them again that some things trigger me but my parents would call me dramatic, my dad would laugh and they would probably not change. what do i do?

  • Yes I experienced that with my mother when she makes her choice or believes something she sticks to it a lot of the time she’s right but in this situation she’s wrong I wish I could make her see that it’s a trigger for me I just realized that I suffer from neurosis and OTC addiction for almoust 10 years there were a few times that when I was taking pills mom triggered something so bad in me I wanted to die and when I kept trying to kill myself and still lift I was mad at God for protecting me from killing myself it’s affecting my dignity pride self-respect and self-love lately I’ve just been laying in the room taking over-the-counter painkillers sleeping hoping that everything will change

  • Dealing with toxic parents: grey rock. Smile and nod a LOT. Don’t take their shit on. Most of their complaints about you are things that they haven’t worked on themselves.

  • I have a strong belief in getting the TOXIC people out of my life. Unfortunately this had to include my own Mum. I left home at 15, joined the army at 20 and now I’m writing this at age 40. I have tried all of my life to have a healthy relationship with her. I tried a year after I had joined the army, then again two years after that, then again when I was pregnant with my first child and so on. Each time was further and further apart. She is 73 now and still says horrible things to me and about my brother (who is in jail). She has never (and I doubt will ever) accepted any responsibility for her abusive behaviour throughout our lives. My psychologist suspects she is a narcissist. I still love her because she is my mum but I’ve had to accept that I can’t have a relationship with her. I will tell my mum I love her and say goodbye at her funeral.

  • The people that I live with literally drew me to selfharm and because of one other reason that happened to me 11 years ago for 3 years

  • My mother still sees the rebellious teenager but in reality what sits in front of her is a broken spirit and a broken heart that cannot help himself at this time how can I get her to see that and not the rebellious teenager now that’s what she she’s not the mental changes that has happened at this pointwhen I take pills it’s not addiction it’s I do it with the strong hope to go to slepp and never wake up

  • I’m 32 years old and it makes me feel bad that I still live with my mother she doesn’t believe that she thinks I’m just using her and I’m being rebellious it hurts me so bad that I can’t cry

  • Yes I experienced that with my mother when she makes her choice or believes something she sticks to it a lot of the time she’s right but in this situation she’s wrong I wish I could make her see that it’s a trigger for me I just realized that I suffer from neurosis and OTC addiction for almoust 10 years there were a few times that when I was taking pills mom triggered something so bad in me I wanted to die and when I kept trying to kill myself and still lift I was mad at God for protecting me from killing myself it’s affecting my dignity pride self-respect and self-love lately I’ve just been laying in the room taking over-the-counter painkillers sleeping hoping that everything will change

  • 7SR please post more videos like these.These are my most favourite post of yours ������

    Every body else at home,do prayer for corona to go away
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  • My mom and step dad dad are major triggers for me. I have epilepsy along with my mental health issues and stress is my biggest trigger. My mom is an agoraphobic and my step dad is a narcissist pedophile who has verbally abused my mom and me and my bros for over 20 years. My mom makes me feel guilty for not going there any more and so does my brothers despite the tole it takes on my mental heath. I spent 20+ years trying to get her away from him and she wont go, If I stand any chance of restoring my mental health I need to keep toxic people out witch as sad as it is to say means extremely limiting my ex posher to my mom and bro’s I fear. I do love my mom very much this has been very hard on me.

  • I loved this song and what it represents. God bless both sides. God will be there in the end. We did not make it all up. God loves us.

  • My mother has always been controlling and dominating, which led me to find friends who do the same to me and it even gave me intimacy issues.
    I had been trying to work it out on my own but it never did help. went to a therapist, who made the whole session all about me being gay, even though, I told that had never been an issue with me.
    I visit home once in a year… and prefer not to stay at home for more than 5 days.
    I am keeping away from all such friends who were toxic. but it has left me with feeling of emptiness in me.

  • My father is very emotional abusive and i cant take much more. Always puts my down and treats me bad. I listen to music to sound him out but i hear it every day. Insults me about my hair, my body, he fat shames me. I had 9 attempts of suicide cause of his emotional abuse. My depression has gotten increasingly worse by the day I DONT KNOW WHAT TO DO AT THIS POINT!!!!:'(

  • Timeless video, timeless lyric and a timeless performance that transcends the Irish conflict. Today we still have too many zombies willing to crucify children just for the politics ‘in your head’.

  • My favorite therapist response: “and how does that make you feel……?” as they’re writing…… And not paying attention to the fact that you just told them how you feel. So you wanna know how I feel about the way I feel?

  • I like this video and adding it to my library. If anyone can’t afford therapy, I recommend my channel for resources like videos of this youtuber!
    I am a survivor of abuse and live with mental illness so I hope I can help others by connecting you to those same amazing doctors, therapists, and gurus and informational videos on here that helped me.

    Thanks if u read this.

  • We’d get along great.. Reaching out. Your better and more informative than any locals a starvin artist and now I’m at a HUGE change… I will apply it immediately I just don’t know been around the wrong crowd misery likes company addiction no-one to reach to
    My whole town knows me always hoping to relate thab I’m in the zone. This and haters annoying fans don’t want to lie to them just because they support me. Detoxed 4/5 times went mission driven homeless don’t trust much can’t step out around the block trying to waste time via envy tempted to use again something i recognize as the grwatesr euphiria to think properly and thats when im content. What to do
    My body is still tight in my chest. I trust your opinion. I have a passion. Career flexibility commision due to my abilities

  • https://youtu.be/KXglbtShiRA Check this out. You won’t regret it. You’re worthy and amazing and don’t let people or small things make you feel horrible. Don’t waste your life. Live it to the fullest ❤️

  • im having the same problem. im gay and being from the black comminity gay is wrong and evil im 30 and can no longer be disrespected i want to go semi no contact! but i just stick around for the abuse. help!

  • My life is a fucking mess right now. So my parents are divorced and they hate each other. I’m getting a nose surgery and me and my dad have been seeing the doctor without my mom because I’m sick, and we need to see if my surgery needs to be delayed. So my mom got mad because apparently we “excluded her”. I didn’t understand shit about why. She literally called my doctor and screamed at him, telling him that she could find another doctor. I couldn’t believe it. I’m so fucking ashamed. I mean yesterday I went too see the guy with my dad and everything was great. And the doctor has always been so helpful. I’m going through some anxiety right now because I am supposed to see the doctor on Monday with my dad. Now I am not. My dad doesn’t know shit about this ☠️ Someone help me

  • I don’t remember much about my childhood.
    It’s just really hard for me to remember how it was, but somethings I still remember.
    Like, my father became violent and started chasing me in the house (I was really little, maybe six or five? I’m not sure) just because I didn’t want to read a little book about school stuff. And then I don’t remember if managed to catch me or not, I don’t remember.
    But at some point he locked himself in his and mom’s bedroom, and didn’t want to get out because I had to apologize, and my mom blamed me too, after she came back, and just said that I had to apologize so the story would finally end.
    And there was that time, I was like nine years old, and he wouldn’t let me go to a friend’s house for a few hours, he dind’t even told me why, he just didn’t want to drive me there. And he kept on behaving like this, only with me.
    He never wanted for me to go and stay outside, he would complain everytime I asked for him to drive to the cinema (which wasn’t so often, I’ve always had trouble at making friends) but if my big brother asked, he wouldn’t complain much and drive him where his friends were. There was the time when he yelled at my mom “Let her go out, and I’l beat her” and he always scared me to hell. And then one day I asked him why he did all of this, why he would always say “No” for everything in my goddamn life, and he didn’t answer me. He told me to shut up, but I wouldn’t (he took me forcefully away from some friends that asked me if I wanted to go to the MacDonalds with them. I had told him who my friends were, how long I was going to be out, because they always wanted me to tell everything about all the people I was with).
    So he grabbed me from my hair, and just roughly shoved me in my room and locked me in there.
    He never said “Sorry” he never tried to do anything. He would just stay in front of the TV and he was frickin’ obsessed with me.
    Finally, my mom is getting a separation and she wants a divorce and everything, and he’s not in the house anymore. He blamed me for the lack of relationshiip between the two of us, he said to my brother (not to me) that he did what he did to protect me (he didn’t even admitted that he was a total asshole. It’s always been like this, he’s right, I’m wrong)
    And so I stopped answering the phone when he called. I don’t want to talk to him, I don’t want him in my life.
    My relatives don’t know shit about what he did, so they’re all “He’s your father, youll talk with him” and shit like that.
    But I really don’t want to. That man shamed me and my body. He talked shit about any friend I had, he didn’t love me, he was so fucking obsessed. He wanted me to give him kisses and hugs, even after he treated me like shit. He would act like nothing happened, or like everything was my fault, and he still wanted me to kiss him, hug him. And I never did, and he got angry about that.
    Even my mother wants me to call him, but just because he blames her for me hating him. Like he did nothing.
    I was always so fucking scared of that man. The way he wuold look at me sometimes, it mad me want to hide somewhere. One time he was an asshole to my brother (who plays a game called Magic) and I didn’t really think of what I was doing, I just got mad because my brother looked so down, after he was all smiling with me (and it0s rare because we don’t have a fucking relationship, I live basically on my own for christ’s sake), so I got up, took the awfully excuse of a human being by an arm, and shoved him out of the room. Kind of like when he did it to. But I’m small, he’s huge, so it was difficult. And i closed the door and when I understood what I did, and he was on the door yelling at me, I got su fucking scared, and I stayed on the door to block it, and my brother didn’t thouth much about it and said to let him in, and when I did, I ran to my brother so I could hide somewhere.

    My dad’s always been like a big issue, for me. My mom made her mistakes too, all the pressure she put on me was awfull, but meh, with her I got along pretty well.
    But him? Thank fucking goodness I don’t have him in the same house anymore. I was so tired. So, so tired.
    I still am, and I’m struggling with self-harm and other problems, and I want to think just about these problems and how to move on, I don’t even want to think about him, Not anymore. He cries for me? Let him cry. I cried enough for to many people, that asshole too. And it was so not worth it and I’m tired of it.
    Let him cry, maybe it’ll open his eyes.

    I’m sorry for this hude comment, and bad english. I needed to rant about this, and I need to go back to my therapist, since I stopped without giving a reason, but I was stupid, and things got so much worse then betterI’ll stop. Okay.
    Have a goodnight!

  • 5:43 well no shit, it was their choice to be a parent and they can’t go around acting like they did a us favour by giving birth to us. If you’re thinking of having a child you should be completely prepared for anything, whatever comes your way. Having a child is HUGE responsibility and not just an obligation for a married couple. If you’re not prepared, don’t have one. It’s that simple. Don’t go on to ruin somebody else’s life because of your incompetence. You have no. fucking. right.

  • I had 5 brain surgeries as a kid 2 when I was 8 and 3 when I was 14. I never worried about not waking up. All I thought about was getting rid of the excruciating pain I was constantly in. When I woke up the pain was even worse it felt like someone had been beating me in the head with a baseball bat.

  • Isn’t it sad..especially when ur own mother tells you ur an disappointment and a failure and very hurtful words…lol thats my life

  • My parents think that my therapist and my boyfriend convinced me that I suffer from anxiety and depression and that it’s not real even though I’ve had these issues years before I even knew my boyfriend and my therapist. I can’t wait to move out

  • The words that literally made me cry not joking made me cry a lot is “what if I don’t wake up” I felt so bad no one deserves to die people need to have a good life imagine getting told your going to die during your childhood! Childhood is meant to be the best part if life I’m so glad hes alive

  • I wanna be a neurosurgeon. I guess I’ll handle patient deaths pretty well since I didn’t cry one bit. But, something tells me it’ll be a whole lot more different. You don’t feel responsible when you watch sad videos. You do feel responsible when a person dies at your hands. But damn, the sensation of relief when I found out that the dude had survived!

  • You brave brave boy. You live that life of yours to the full, do and be who you want and don’t let anyone tell you different. You are amazing x

  • I’ve have always been terrified that I will not wake up after surgery. I cannot imagine dealing with that at age 16. I have tears in my eyes now.

  • When I started therapy for the ptsd that I was hospitalized twice for my therapist didn’t focus on that at first until she felt I was stable enough to work on it. I am grateful though because as much as I wanted to work on it all right off the get-go I truly wasn’t stable enough and am doing really well now.

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  • I lost my son in October. This hit home and was tough to watch.
    What a brave kid.
    Don’t take one second for granted people.
    God bless

  • I suffer from severe ADHD and sometimes I feel alone because there is too much stress in my life and I decided to suppress my emotions and it hurts so much…

  • I had surgery yesterday but for my stomach it happens to a lot of kids but hearing him have brain surgery and him getting a risk of death is very scary.

  • The world is a circus, if pleasing your family discomfort them, move somewhere else where you can have peace and appreciation you are the 1% be faithful and respect yourself, the world don’t own you anything.

  • When i watched this vidoe idk if spelled right but it made me feel kinda better that im scared of chickens or eating an animal makes me feel really bad that im eating a live aniamal

  • “We are so delighted with the news that Zombie has reached 1 Billion views on YouTube! �� We are sure Dolores has a big, proud smile on her face too.
    Thank you so much to all our fans around the world for supporting us over so many years.
    Hopefully you are all safe and well in this bizarre time and managing to find some hope and positivity in our music.” ❤️
    Fergal Lawler

  • I like this video and adding it to my library. If anyone can’t afford therapy, I recommend my channel for resources like videos of this youtuber!
    I am a survivor of abuse and live with mental illness so I hope I can help others by connecting you to those same amazing doctors, therapists, and gurus and informational videos on here that helped me.

    Thanks if u read this.

  • I’m glad to see that I’m not alone. When I spoke up about there abuse, both of my parents went on a slandering spree, went on speaking on things that weren’t true, twisting the story around so that they’re the victim, then turns my entire family against me, not to mention, neighbors, friends and strangers! I’ve come to the conclusion that after many attempts to therapy and talking and intervention, I decided to go no contact. It sucks and I know that on top of my family being displeased due to their rumors, I will be looked down upon from many people. They’re just so good at making themselves look like great parents and that they’re doing their best when they actually bully me behind closed doors. no one will believe me because of their age and because they’re parents smh. I honestly can’t wait to break free from this narcissistic family

  • That BAD WOLVES song makes me furious…. I hate them, let’s now listen to the real song, with real emotions and a real political agenda… IRA sucks

  • Your words echoes an eternity!!! We are doomed to repeat history…if we can just learn this world is enough for all to prosper,, no color before the word life,, it is all a Devine blessing from a power,much Greater then ourselves!!! Iv proved you and crew for Decades… I pray Jesus protects us all from evildoers. Love spread over the world is only thing that can save this planet

  • Press in 1993:
    “Hi Berries, you are low rock and alternative folk music. It’s impossible you are going to a Top5 rock song in History. Linger is a great love song, but hard rock / heavy rock is for Deep Purple, LED Zeppeling, Aerosmith, Metallica… hahahahaha”

    Berries:
    “Are you sure?”

  • I loved this song and what it represents. God bless both sides. God will be there in the end. We did not make it all up. God loves us.

  • Dolores la voce piu’ bella di tutti i tempi!!! Mitica,grazie per tutte le emozioni che ci regali ad ascoltare la tua musica, sei sempre viva per me!!!

  • well pickey eaters are scared if this because they can’t eat new foods and stiff like that! but i know this because you’re skinny and fin but not fat because you weren’t and you were skinny

  • 1st question: my therapist said a similar thing to me. She told me she wants to make sure i have a stable foundation basically and family stuff comes later, she will have that in mind. I trusted her with this, last session we dove into family stuff.

    I’m not saying i don’t get a say in what we’re doing but she recommends things from her professional perspective and i trust her. i am also already feeling positive effects after a few months.

  • Another head hangs lowly

    Child is slowly taken

    And the violence, caused such silence

    Who are we mistaken?

    But you see, it’s not me

    It’s not my family

    In your head, in your head, they are fighting

    With their tanks, and their bombs

    And their bombs, and their guns

    In your head, in your head they are crying

    In your head, in your head

    Zombie, zombie, zombie-ie-ie

    What’s in your head, in your head

    Zombie, zombie, zombie-ie-ie, oh

    Du, du, du, du

    Du, du, du, du

    Du, du, du, du

    Du, du, du, du

    Another mother’s breaking

    Heart is taking over

    When the violence causes silence

    We must be mistaken

    It’s the same old theme

    Since nineteen-sixteen

    In your head, in your head, they’re still fighting

    With their tanks, and their bombs

    And their bombs, and their guns

    In your head, in your head, they are dying

    In your head, in your head

    Zombie, zombie, zombie-ie-ie

    What’s in your head, in your head

    Zombie, zombie, zombie-ie-ie, oh oh oh oh oh oh oh ie-ie oh

  • After my grandma passed away my life has completely changed into hell I just want to die but I don’t have that much courage to do so

  • my parents do try. i have told them how i feel and they havent changed. i try to not let them bother me. i want to remind them again that some things trigger me but my parents would call me dramatic, my dad would laugh and they would probably not change. what do i do?

  • Who else listens to this song in 2020? I know I am…

    As a matter of fact… I think that all of us music artists should somehow make a full time collaboration; and make one like this song, ‘Zombie, by the Cranberries,’ in either late 2020, (just right before new years day ball drop as a grand finale of this fucked-up year that is 2020 ). Or, in early 2021 when hopefully things clear up with COVID-19 no longer existing… Overall, that would be an excellent idea, but it might be an issue due to social distancing this year

    -You know what, I think I might as well just be patient for once and hopefully, by the time 2021 or 2022 begins, this idea of mine can possibly be a thing!!!!!! Let’s just hope for the best to come, spread the word, it’s up to you, fingers cross, stay safe, and wear your seat belt. U•ェ•*U

  • This is NOT how you treat picky eaters, people with this condition, mental illnesses, or people in general. It’s mean and stupid and frowned down upon. ����

  • I suffer from severe ADHD and sometimes I feel alone because there is too much stress in my life and I decided to suppress my emotions and it hurts so much…

  • I have this to I don’t like a lot of food and I get bullied ): but I do not mind that I am sad but also happy that I have this because people are
    Supposed to love the problem they have so I sometimes try to eat some different food so this is my story I hope you like it because I do (:

  • I was In Tears I couldn’t even stop crying I would never wanna lose my 4 year old brother and if that was my brother i would hope he is oaky so glad He is alive and alright Thank You God for Keeping This Young man alive ����

  • OH MY GOD I’M IN THE SAME SITUATION AS THAT GIRL TBH EXCEPT I ALSO HAVE A DRIVING PHOBIA AND NO LICENSE AND LOANS COMING UP UGH PLUS EMOTIONAL INSTABILITY

  • This gave me the confidence to tell my dad we need talk therapy about not realizing the abuse that my mom was doing and instigating. You Rock!

  • Parents deny therapy
    Kids at school: help her get the therapy she needed.
    Teachers: sets up therapy and brings in food for her
    Well done to he kids and teachers.

  • I remember one of those real life ER shows that were popular back around 2000 and a kid was brought in after a vehicular accident and needed stitches in her face. She was young, 6-10 years. The kid starting singing this song to their ER doc and of course the doc was encouraging it because it kept their mind elsewhere instead of the trauma that was being addressed. Just wanted to say I hope that kid is doing great today and that doc was freaking great as well.

  • I also had that problem. Parents never understand, they always think they can have their way by brute force. I had a serious phobia of many foods and nobody understood.
    They always just think you are being picky. I still won’t eat some foods because my parents made me eat them when I was younger. Parents, if your child is being picky it may not be what it seems, there is an equal chance that something else is going on. Brute force never works. It always leads to misery for all involved.

  • It’s been almost two years since I edited and uploaded this video and ever since I got an overwhelming amount of comments of people sharing there stories and thoughts. I just wanna say that even tho I don’t really go on this account anymore every now and than I come back to read as many comments as possible and try to respond but it’s been getting harder because this video has so many views now and comments it’s impossible too. However I’m aware of all of you guys that are struggling and feeling unwanted by your families and I just wanna say I’m so sorry and I bless each and other one of you guys. Everything gets better I promise. Especially for those who are suicidal please don’t suicide will only spread more pain. ❤️❤️

  • My family always compares me with my cousin and judges me.Why can’t I be me.my own me and not her. I just think of dying right now

  • My family doesn’t even care me it’s 2:58 AM and I am crying thinking that why I was born??? why my parents treat me differently from my siblings.. they think that I am useless I don’t know anything but outside me happy just to hide my pains but inside i’m just broken ��

  • I am good in school but have 2 sisters and my family thinks i am dragging them down and shutting myself off because i am studying really hard

  • I don’t know if people can surpass the their phobias but I can tell you to start trying to love it and remained yourself even if your still scared that it keep alive you will defeat your fear

  • I didnt know depression was a thing…till i was 9 my first suicidal attempt…since then my mum completely shun me…am the crazy lunatic of the house

  • OK so, you need to move on from the past and in order to do that, you need to make things right.
    Go talk to Ella and try and talk to her giving her the true story so she might at least talk to you then go visit your parents in prison. Try and make amends. They do love you even if they don’t want to show it
    After you do both of those things, you can put them in the past. This event will no longer haunt you and it will become a distant memory.

  • Im a massive mistake that nobody wants my parents are split amd live there own lives, barely get a phone call once a month if im lucky, my two older siblings never even txt me, im a burden, im the black sheep and theres times i patched that hurt up with other things, but now at 33 its literally killing me

  • I’m a mistake… even my aunt says it… I just belong in this world… no one wants me and that’s how it is… I try every fuckin day to be the perfect person… I know no ones perfect but it jus seems that they want perfect and I jus can’t give them that… why not jus die I mean I’m gonna die anyways sooner or later

  • I lost three people in my life. My brother my sister my uncle. Im tired of lossing people. So i dont have friends or family cause i cant loose anymore people so i dont get close to people cause they either leave or die or dissapear

  • Lordy, depressed people don’t care about your happy travel. Or drumming up business engagements. If you want a video on your happy travels, have one, but don’t mess with depressed children seeking help.

  • Conocidos parecidos a músicos
    ��La bettina:Dolores O’Riordan de los Cranberries
    ��El jona: Freddy Mercury de Queen
    ��El Rodri: Charles Manson
    ��El Diego: jon Andreas de Dissection
    ��El José:kurt Cobain de Nirvana
    ��El indio:el rey lagarto el rey del sexo y del Rock es Jim Morrison
    ��El gordo rober: Max Cavalera de sepultura
    ��El ruso: Axel Rose de gun n roses
    ��El pelado: Billy Corgan de Smashing Punkis y por ahora la lista queda así…..

  • Im 11 now and have a whole life ahead of me so do a lot of you guys. And just the thought of someone saying goodbye to anyone they love beings tears to my eyes

  • I’m watching this after my family tell me that I’m ugly & stupid and my brother was gonna hurt me I’m crying for 4 hours hope I’m I stay in this life i just wanna say take care all be safe

  • Why….why….whywhywhywhy…why can’t ever do anything right….why do I always ruin everything….why do I ruin everyone’s life…why can’t I be perfect for those I love….why do I always fail even though I study hard?!…why can’t I ever do something right!…why am I such a burden….I…..I…..idk anymore….I’m to blame…..it’s my fault for getting raped for being weak….is my fault for getting physically hurt because I was a problem….I got bullied for being ugly and fat…..I honestly suck…. I’m done…. honestly I’m done….why keep trying if I’m a good for nothing?…why keep trying???… why….. people always tell me I’m doing this for attention….but I’m not….I just want to be better…..but ig I really am hopeless….I’m about to shut down tbh…..I don’t want to die sad….I want to die happy…..but I guess I’m going to live in pain for the rest of my life…..I’m sorry mama….for being so useless….and sorry sister for being so problematic….I’m sorry��������

  • My mom and brother literally left me with dad because of some stupid false accusations, while dad is a stranger to me im not comfortable with strangers, now im living alone until dad come i still want mom because obviously i didnt do anything of what she thinks and im just crying every night and always on social media to forget about the reality ; even if some people care a little i know it wont last long so icant tell them what i need and i just want mom thats my story

  • I was only 12 then my family came to know that I had tumour in my brain… At one hospital Dr said only 50 50 chances of survival and face could be damaged at one side and the cost could be 2 lacks after listening of low chances of survival, we went to another hospital there Dr said 98 percent of chances and cost is also less that is 1.25 lacks
    Now I m in my late 18 I had undergone brain, spine, neck surgery and also radiation in my brain still I have a tumour in my brain and several tumours in my spine plz pray for my health… I beg u. And also I don’t have enough strength to do any work for a long time also I m deaf. ������but I don’t criticize God because of my health… I m so thankful of him that he gave eyes to see the beautiful world and much more.. I want to say dont critics God because of small problems.. Be happy in what u have always help others����

  • I am a unfortunate one I say..the one who is abandoned by everyone and my “family” sees me as a slave to get them cash. My “mother” would even sell her “children” for cash she has already forced my brother to marry a rich girl. Now it’s my turn I of course refuse she favors him (my brother) more because his future is bright will bring her lots of money. While am a disappointment I hate her and also feel pathetic that I care for her all I done for her was stupid because she never gave a shit about me I suffered unnecessarily I even forgot who I was I still don’t know who I am because of all the act I did to not embarrass her..I just want to find a place where I could call home or go home but am afraid home is no more..I long for a simple life where I am truly happy and free somewhere peaceful with someone that actually cares for me..being abandoned by someone you love and thought cared for you is a horrible feeling the same with that person thought loved and cared for you and you cared so deeply about wants to sell you for cash.. #mommyissues I guess..��

  • Question: How do people who come in contact with their trigger very often differ from those who don’t as much? For example, if someone was sexually assaulted and they see their assaulter every day, will they be able to heal from their trauma quicker because they are forced to constantly confront it, as opposed to someone who doesn’t see their assaulter that often?

  • Sometimes, living with your parents is not possible. Sometimes the only option you have is to move out, and move on. Cut off ties. Yes they are your parents, but they are still people at the end of the day. If they aren’t trying to change. You can make people change, or get better. Sometimes separation is key.

  • Im a demon to my family.I’m a spoied brat but today everything went too far.. Now my family hates me.
    I want to die so bad l.But, I know I can’t sometimes times I wish they would just take my life because I don’t deserve no good..

  • My father hates me, he always grip about literally every little thing I do, calls me stupid, useless, lazy, always remind me of my failures even when I get A’s, he’s only told me he loves me once, always tells me to get out of the house and when I do with my friends he complains about it to and embarrass me in front them calling me just to grip at me. He basically always tells me I don’t have friends, he told me my grandma loves my cousin more which always feels like she does. Everyone telling me who to be, trying to control my life. I always feel like a burden to my family and friends. It seems like no one loves me, it seems like my friends don’t care, it doesn’t matter that they say they love me it’s basically always seems to me that has to text and if I don’t they don’t text me. I wish people would love me, I bet if I died they wouldn’t care. The only people who loved me better than anyone are dead, my grandpa and Ben, almost all of my animals, all my senior friends left so I feel even more alone. He treats everyone better but my mom, grandma(my mom’s mom) and especially me.

  • Doesn’t matter if they’re “doing the best they can” at the act of parenting. That comes second to simply loving the child. A loving parent acts in a way that cares for the child’s wellbeing in all aspects (physically, mentally, etc). There are definitely parents who do not love their child.

  • It’s so hard…..I can’t take it more.My parents hate me.They wish I was never born.Till now I feel so alone.God plzz make me go from this alone world.I have no one to share and cry.I crying ide myself while sleeping.If I have done anything wrong! Plzz god forgive me.

  • I lost my son in October. This hit home and was tough to watch.
    What a brave kid.
    Don’t take one second for granted people.
    God bless

  • My bday is next month on the 20th when I asked my parents what we are going to do they said why were even born, you’re a burden to this fam, there’s no point in doing anything for you’re bday I tried so hard not to cry bcuz they think I am being dramatic but those words hurts me every single day sometimes I beg god to take me I don’t wanna be here no one care about me, what’s the point of me living, I am not gonna get my dream job, I am not gonna get wat I want, I am not gonna be able to do anything I want, what’s the whole point�� sometimes I ask my frnds if they can kill me and they’re like shut up u dummy

  • When I started therapy for the ptsd that I was hospitalized twice for my therapist didn’t focus on that at first until she felt I was stable enough to work on it. I am grateful though because as much as I wanted to work on it all right off the get-go I truly wasn’t stable enough and am doing really well now.

  • Once night i heard my parents talking about me in their bedroom that she is useless. Her grades r getting low. We do support her passion. She is good at photography. But how can we talk about her to our family members and friends? I was literally crying.I was like I don’t fail in any subjects. Ok I deserve you but your don’t deserve me.
    My friends and my family members everyone tell me that I am useless.

  • I’m sorry to my mother that I will never be the daughter she wants. She wants me to be this outgoing girl who loves to go outside and hang out with friends instead of staying in the house all day and I’m sorry for that. I wish I could be more like cousin she is so pretty she is popular and I’m just a ugly quiet loser. I think my mother thinks of my cousin more as her daughter then me. I’m sorry I’m a disappointment. I already hate myself so yea

  • My life was perfect but 2 years later my life is not the same I had a girl friend at middle school but 2 years later we broke up in 2020
    And lose someone that I loved ���� and my dad is not his fault it’s my fault am paralyzed my self am not the same anymore that’s how I
    Lift my beautiful life was ������ am died in side

  • My parents get worse over time-at first the boundaries aren’t needed, but then more and more they add back the gaslighting and passive-aggressive remarks. Basically, they don’t put up with different mindsets, feelings, world views, or much of anything. We get along on a practical level, but forbid that you don’t want to be insulted or have things you care about be considered or respected. Assertiveness makes things worse. Trying to get diplomatic dialogue makes things worse. They can’t do anything wrong, therefore any differences mean it’s my wrong, even for things that have no right or wrong. I think younger me had the right idea of being a recluse instead of being a whole, equally valuable human being. On the plus side, my chronic illness I’ve had as an adult is to a point I can work, albeit home-based freelance work. But I do have hope that I can move away with financial independence. The last time I left was to move in with a different family member, but she turned out to be full-blown personality disorder-level narcissist-that was scary. But at least some of her traits were super obvious versions of my parents’ subtle ones, so it’s easier to see through my parents’ manipulations.

  • I will be 1 year anniversary heart attack come March 2020, only heard for 2 sisters & 1 brother, that was 10 months ago….. They must really really hate me because one of them said to me you didn’t have a heart attack you better had a stent put in twice so you didn’t have a heart attack yes I did close to my family a lot of money because of medical conditions I’m problem teeth problems etc. etc. etc. I come from a family of 10 siblings

  • I couldn’t make my family proud. I am a burden to my family. I’ve tried everything but it just all go wrong and bring much more worst to my family. Mistake are done. God, wish you never bring me to this world, wish i never born or never exist. What’s my reason to live, I hate myself, i was a mistake. If this keeps going on, sometimes i feel like i wanted end my life.

  • I am a burden to the family that took me in. my mom blames me for my illness. I have lyme diease from birth. I have no autobiographical memory. I cant remember the good times. I cant remember a single conversation from before a day ago with any coherency. I try and try and try to remember the story of my life and its just gone. the only things i can remember are the the things that happen over and over and over. I cant remember the romances I’ve had, the moments of triumph, the minute details are all gone. When i am stressed i have torturous migraines that leave me begging for death. I feel like I’ve never lived. my mother in her confusion caused by her lyme infection forced me to believe i was normal and at fault for any failings i had in life. she kicked me out because she cant handle my liberal viewpoint that paints her life and the world in which it takes place as a surreal dystopian. I forget who i am and how broken i am sometimes. I then start blaming myself for the burden that i am, being essentially a child in a 22yer old body. I did pizza delivery untill i got so sick mentally that i crashed 3 cars in one year. it was all pointless. my mother forced me back into the workforce endangering the time, money, and safety of employers and customers. also CNA training is a joke and so easy a person who self describes as mostly brain dead could pass. I ran out of that job the moment i realized the self delusion my mother was forcing me under. I was really scared of living with the guilt of providing inadequate care.

  • The worst is when you tell your family you feel like a burden to them and they’re like “no sweetie!!” And then one day they crack and turn on you telling you how sick they are of you

  • The Army hoo woo now the army will beat the giant monster lookalike a girl no wait the giant monster pick up one the army men and OMG �� WTH WHY in 7:12 poor army

  • I was taken to a children home when I was a child and it was so brutal.I kept wondering why my family didn’t want me, why they couldn’t just keep me even if we had to wash clothes for other people for food, at least wed be together.Years later the home closed down and I was taken back home.Ive been struggling because nobody seems to understand me and then today my cousins confirmed what I’ve always known…he point black told me that everybody hated me and now am just wishing I can just dissapear….

  • If possible, try to patch things up with Ellie, but be careful. There are some friends that would take advantage of the state you’re in to get you to do whatever they want with no intention of forgiveness. People like that are best left forgotten. Make sure Ellie isn’t one of them. If that fails, then all I can say is try to move on with your life as much as possible. If your parents were so quick to disown you after you got them arrested for something they did, it makes me question how much they really care about you. They may have used you as an excuse to justify their actions since they’re providing for their daughter.

  • Can you please continue the series it would be great to see more about her parents and their job I always wanted to see riddle series

  • Why would Elle think u were in on it if u called the police to fix it and let your mom and dad go to jail!?!?!?!?!? And even if she still thought u were part of it she should at least let u explain or GET COMMON SENSE!!!!!! SHE WOULD NEVER DO THAT SHES YOUR BEST FRIEND YOU SHOULD KNOW SHE WOULDNT DO THAT TO AN INNOCENT KID WHO IS YOUR BEST FRIENDS BROTHER

    THIS IS JUDT MSKING ME MAD �� KNOW THAT ELLE ISNT BEING A FRIEND

  • Well Anne really had a bad time. What her parents did is really wrong. But Anne did the right thing. She needs to move forward through the future. She still have her grandparents. She must stay brave. Life like a book of chapters. This incidents was one of her nightmare. Come through in. Their is more to find out in our lives. Just be happy Anne❤️

  • U need to see your parents and let them explain better. And Elle is ungrateful she should have thanked u after all you helped her to find her brother

  • My moms behaviors been way worse since I’ve been diagnosed with anxiety and depression, which really confuses me bc she has bipolar disorder herself and her side of the family is the one with several mental illnesses, she has been WAY more abusive and triggering for me in several ways so I really do think you have to redo this video without being that optimistic on the parents side

  • Trouble is my parents are quite two faced and no one gets it it’s really hard to explain and I just don’t get on with them like sometimes no matter hard you try in life sometimes you just don’t like certain people and that’s me with my parents and I can’t wait till I’m 18 go go off to uni

  • why didn’t dory story make this video and this isn’t 7-second riddle’s job and there are no riddles but the point is sooooooooooo sadddddddddddddddd

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  • You brave brave boy. You live that life of yours to the full, do and be who you want and don’t let anyone tell you different. You are amazing x

  • 7SR please post more videos like these.These are my most favourite post of yours ������

    Every body else at home,do prayer for corona to go away
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