Things to Say When Individuals Push Food for you


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3. LET PEOPLE BE HOSPITABLE IN OTHER WAYS. If your fear is looking ungrateful, plan and role-play saying things that show how grateful you are. A lot of food pushing at the holidays is hospitality with calories. People want us to feel welcome and comfortable, and.

You can say, “Dinner was perfect, and I couldn’t imagine eating another bite.” That way, you’re setting a boundary, but couching it with a compliment of the meal. This makes it difficult for the person offering you food to push further. Finally, follow up with another polite nod to their offer. In an ideal world, somebody would offer you something to eat, you would say no and that would be the end of that. Everybody would be happy.

The person doing the offering respects your decision. How to Deal With People Who Push Food On You. Here are four tips for dealing with people who push food on you. 1. Just say no.

Feel comfortable being honest. outlines tips for this type of situation and advises being “nice but super firm.” When someone asks you to have a second slice of pie, don’t feel like you have to say yes. “No thanks,” you can say. Someone is going to ask “why are you on a gluten-free diet?” Someone is going to offer you a treat.

You know these situations are going to happen so you can plan for them and act them out in your head. 3. Let people be hospitable in other ways. If your fear is looking ungrateful, plan and role-play saying. When food is pushed on you, you can excuse yourself to go to the bathroom or say, “I’m just going to chat with Uncle John – I haven’t caught up with him yet.” Your food pusher will likely have forgotten by the time they see you again.

2. postpone. I just say “no thank you”. If somebody really does push hard, depending what time of day the function is, I will say I had a large Breakfast or large lunch just not hungry, thank you though. I find more often than not, people do not say anything. If you have a plate in front of you that is all they are concerned about, not how much you have on that plate.

When people push food towards you saying that, ‘one little piece won’t do any harm’, you can ignore it but if someone gets really pushy, there are some unexpected ways to the turn the conversation around. You can say things like – ‘I am trying to do this for a better me’, ‘I am trying to practice some will power’. The Push: [Someone puts an extra helping on your plate without you asking.] Your Response: Push it around with your fork like you did as a kid to make it look like you tried it. Why It Works: While putting food on someone else’s plate can be viewed as passive-aggressive, it was probably done with love.

When you’re offered a food that’s not on your diet, the best response is a firm “no, thank you” without any explanation, because excuses open the door for arguments, says John Foreyt, PhD, director.

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When my family pushes food on me, just keep saying, “No, thanks.”

“The Diet Trap Solution: Train Your Brain to Lose Weight and Keep It Off for Good” by Judith S. Beck, Deborah Beck Busis
from The Diet Trap Solution: Train Your Brain to Lose Weight and Keep It Off for Good
by Judith S. Beck, Deborah Beck Busis
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Tell them: “I really like the way you eat,” or, “You sure do a great job controlling your weight, you look great,” and “I’m trying to get there too.

“Way to Eat: A Six-step Path to Lifelong Weight Control” by Maura Harrigan Gonzalez
from Way to Eat: A Six-step Path to Lifelong Weight Control
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If someone pushes food at you, say one of the following:

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Gürze Books, 2013

If you don’t want to eat something, politely say, “No, thank you.”

“Nutrition Education: Linking Research, Theory, and Practice” by Isobel R. Contento
from Nutrition Education: Linking Research, Theory, and Practice
by Isobel R. Contento
Jones & Bartlett Learning, 2010

If they act up, push the food out of reach and walk away.

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from Puppies For Dummies
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Wiley, 2019

Encourage them to let you know with a nod when they are hungry (“like a dinosaur”) and a head shake when they are full (“tummy is happy”).

“Little Foodie: Recipes for Babies and Toddlers with Taste” by Michele Olivier, Sara Peternell
from Little Foodie: Recipes for Babies and Toddlers with Taste
by Michele Olivier, Sara Peternell
Arcas Publishing, 2014

Or I often get the “I’m not hungry” retort where I’m left shoving food down their mouths as they walk to the bus.

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C. Loudly tell them that you’re not there for their food?

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from Management and Leadership in Nursing and Health Care: An Experiential Approach, Third Edition
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Springer Publishing Company, 2012

After tapping on the stress they’re feeling, clients will often say, “Wow, it’s actually not about the food.”

“The Tapping Solution for Weight Loss & Body Confidence: A Woman's Guide to Stressing Less, Weighing Less, and Loving More” by Jessica Ortner
from The Tapping Solution for Weight Loss & Body Confidence: A Woman’s Guide to Stressing Less, Weighing Less, and Loving More
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Hay House, 2014

Say, “Older sister, please eat.”

“Language Socialization Across Cultures” by Schieffelin, Bambi B. Schieffelin, Elinor Ochs, Professor of Anthropology Elinor Ochs, Judith T. Irvine, Marjorie Harness Goodwin, Joel Kuipers, Don Kulick, John Lucy, Michael Silverstein
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Cambridge University Press, 1986

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