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People who have some problems with their relationship with food will probably have bloating, stomach cramps, and other digestive issues. These eating disorders disrupt our digestive patterns and enzymes making it harder to break down foods. Here are 15 signs you may have an unhealthy relationship with food. 15 You Have No Control Over Cake We all have that one food we would kill for.

Those with a sweet tooth might go crazy for that perfect slice of chocolate cake, while others dream about pizza. 25 Signs You Have a Terrible Relationship With Food. You set self-imposed rules to avoid certain foods you deem “bad” and beat yourself up when you cross the line. You spend 15. Here are 15 signs that you’re in a relationship with food: 1. When you’re eating and you’re already thinking about your next meal.

2. When you’re hungry, you completely stop functioning until food is inserted into your system. 3. And if it isn’t, you start looking like this. 4. When it comes to life choices, food is above everything else. 5.

A relationship with food should be a happy one, as there’s a pure joy that comes from sharing a meal with close ones and trying new tastes, flavors, and textures. However, sometimes you. Plus, disordered eating often goes along with depression and anxiety—it’s really hard to hate your body, deny yourself food, and not feel anxious, worthless, or less-than..

So this week, here are 9 signs of disordered eating. Again, it’s all on a spectrum. But if you decide your relationship with food could use a tune-up, rest assured you’re in good company—and listen on to the end.

Ask yourself if any of these features bother you or interfere with your life (happiness, job, school, relationships,) or interferes with the life of the person with whom you are concerned. FEATURE 1: The individual has an unhealthy relationship with food. Here are some signs that your relationship status with food is “Complicated”. 7 Signs that Your Relationship Status with Food is Complicated 1. Food is Your Worst Enemy And Your Best Friend. You agonize over every morsel of food that passes your.

By Brian Syuki. The idea of having a relationship with food may sound like an odd concept, but it makes sense if you spend most of the day thinking about your eating habits and food consumption. Most folks, especially those trying to lose weight, have an unhealthy relationship with food.. Most folks, especially those trying to lose weight, have an unhealthy relationship with food. You have a sense of being trapped in the relationship.

When you argue, one or both of you always just gets defensive. You can never acknowledge that the other person has some valid points.

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Number 3 was a humiliating list: Must be fed most foods.

“Still Alice” by Lisa Genova
from Still Alice
by Lisa Genova
Simon & Schuster UK, 2010

For three months, I could ignore the list; nothing made me more queasy than the smell of food.

“Among The White Moonfaces” by Shirley Geok-lin Lim
from Among The White Moonfaces
by Shirley Geok-lin Lim
Marshall Cavendish International (Asia) Private Limited, 2011

The list is more accurate if she writes down each food immediately after eating.

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from Foundations of Maternal-Newborn and Women’s Health Nursing E-Book
by Sharon Smith Murray, Emily Slone McKinney
Elsevier Health Sciences, 2017

And two: Never try to resolve an emotional conflict over food.

“Gunn's Golden Rules: Life's Little Lessons for Making It Work” by Tim Gunn
from Gunn’s Golden Rules: Life’s Little Lessons for Making It Work
by Tim Gunn
Gallery Books, 2010

7 Throw out any food you cannot eat the same day if your fridge has stopped working.

“Language in the News: Discourse and Ideology in the Press” by Roger Fowler
from Language in the News: Discourse and Ideology in the Press
by Roger Fowler
Routledge, 1991

Now, compare this list with the one you completed in chapter 2, when you first started to address your compulsive overeating.

“Stop Eating Your Heart Out: The 21-Day Program to Free Yourself from Emotional Eating” by Meryl Hershey Beck, Jeanne Rust
from Stop Eating Your Heart Out: The 21-Day Program to Free Yourself from Emotional Eating
by Meryl Hershey Beck, Jeanne Rust
Mango Media, 2012

“Food” doesn’t take into account two of the items on the list: coffee filters and paper plates.

“Research Papers For Dummies” by Geraldine Woods
from Research Papers For Dummies
by Geraldine Woods
Wiley, 2011

6 Don’t people complain about unsalted food?

“NLT Life Application Study Bible, Third Edition, Large Print (Red Letter, Genuine Leather, Black)” by Tyndale
from NLT Life Application Study Bible, Third Edition, Large Print (Red Letter, Genuine Leather, Black)
by Tyndale
Tyndale House Publishers, 2020

Putting foods on your ‘Doesn’t Work For Me’ list – does not mean you will never ever eat these foods again in your life.

“The Goddess Revolution: Food and Body Freedom for Life” by Melissa Wells
from The Goddess Revolution: Food and Body Freedom for Life
by Melissa Wells
Hay House, 2016

7 Food does not break up.

“Food Preparation and Cooking: Cookery units. Student guide”
from Food Preparation and Cooking: Cookery units. Student guide
by
Stanley Thornes, 1996

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  • BPD can also mean Bi-Polar Disorder and some symptoms are common to both. If the illness for either is listed BPD on a chart, I have seen the patient treated for the wrong illness.

  • I had experienced all of these,and I am still experiencing…My childhood was a nightmare,and that nightmare is still continuing…

  • I’ve worked in psych for over 10 years and have worked with several individuals with BPD. To see this young woman be proactive to educated herself on her diagnoses, and become very self aware, is amazing!!! I cant imagine how difficult it was to accept this diagnosis but it speaks volumes to how much she wanted to have the best life for herself that she could. I wish I could show this to our patients to give them hope and motivate themselves to take control of their life!

  • Love this. Being misunderstood is the hardest. Family seems to forget that you are constantly trying to cope and work on yourself. I have to constantly cut myself off from certain people that just have no clue or want to even try to understand.

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  • I am a 46 year old man who was diagnosed with BPD 10 years ago. Her story is my story, I was misdiagnosed bipolar by 2 doctors before finding a doctor who really listened to me.
    It took me years to build a trusting relationship, enough so that I could finally feel safe enough to tell my horror story of a child hood.
    I am on disability because of my inability to have relationships,
    Angry outbursts, and also I dissociate when put in new, strange, or stressful situations. Anyways, I’ll stop there. It’s just nice to know i, not the only one suffering from this.
    Thanks for listening.

  • Dear “MOM”,Every time you say “I’d love to leave this house”, I know mom you dont want me any more,Mom If you wish that i was not your child,Even god knows I NEVER wish that “I wish you were not my MOM”,because I know you will love me more someday:)

  • Just diagnosed with BPD, before I didn’t know why am I being like this but after I heard BPD for the first time and search about it, I felt almost all of the symptoms so I finally know what’s happening with me that I need to heal. I’ve been on counseling with psychiatrist and told that I need to take medication. Because I’m new and too scared to get dependent, can anybody tell me if any of you has experience with BPD, does medication help you?once you take it can you stop?how about the after effect when you stopped?will you start feeing dizzy, nausea, or anything else?I’m so afraid but because it’s getting worse (affect my daily life) that I decide to take medication. Please help me ����

  • OMGosh u prob hear this so often now, but…OMGOSH w/very few exceptions I feel like I’m u! Except I’m 59 & undiagnosed…or maybe just MISdiagnosed, in whole or in part. God bless u, dear ���� ty so much for sharing!

  • Thank you so much for posting this and thanks to sammy. my mother has bpd but can’t get past the stigma so she never asked for help/meds. because of this it and my enabling father it has ruined my whole family. now i just concentrate on my own family and keep them at a distance. it’s sad but healthy…..

  • I have BDP too. I’m 45 years old and have been suffering entire whole life. Living in BDP is truly hell. I wish her happiness. BDP people, please don’t living in a big city. Nature is a best medicine for us.

  • Wtf I have everything she said except for the identity part. I can’t stay on a job long, I moved around so much as a child, I am very impulsive, and I zone out all the time when someone is talking to me..

  • I was recently diagnosed with this. I finally feel understood and just knowing had helped immensely. I have started something called neurofeedback and it had drastically helped with the intense anger I get.

  • Im fighting with addiction off n on and i only use to medicate n calm down threw the episodes i only have 1 bad episode maybe once weekly some of them don’t even last long soon as i get my anger out i feel horrible but its so hard to stop.. please if u read this can u reach out to help me for getting the right help

  • I have a question. How do men and women romantically bond with each other? I heard that women can build incredible friendships and become very close to each other in a way men can’t bond, and I heard that science shows that women can bond very well with each other.

    I heard that generally, women are even more social than men are. After something bad happens, a woman quickly rushes to talk to all of her female friends to get support, whereas a male can isolate himself and grief alone.

    I also heard that women tend to be more emotional, more caring, more empathic, more compassionate, more affectionate, more loyal, more sympathetic, more sensitive, more kind hearted, more peaceful, more calmer, more gentle, more expressive, and more outward than men are, and thus bond more with other women in a special way that they can’t with men. Men, on the other hand, are not that emotional, and thus can’t bond with other men in a special way.

    I also heard that women are more comfortable being around with other women than they are with men. They have a type of bond that usually men with women won’t really have, or with men and men.

    I also heard that most women like to do affectionate things with their female friends like cuddling with them, while most men would never do affectionate things with their male friends (especially not cuddling with them). Men are usually much lonelier than women are. Men don’t often talk about their personal problems with their male friends like how women do with their female friends.

    I also heard that women are very unique creatures, and women feel a lot safer in general with other women than they do with men if either is alone with each other, and it is easier for women to trust other women more than it is to trust a man.

    I also heard that women are very sociable with each other, so if something goes wrong, they like to speak about it to each other. This is a way to develop trust among women. Women often relate their problems with other women, which makes them feel more connected in a way.

    I also heard that most daughters have a very strong bond with their mother, while they don’t have one with their father, and most sons don’t have that strong of a bond with neither their mother nor their father.

    I also heard that most females have a very strong bond with their sisters, while they don’t have one with their brothers, and most males don’t have that strong of a bond with neither their sisters nor their brothers.

    I also heard that the bond that two females have with each other is the strongest bond of them all, and that’s one of the reasons why sayings like “girls always have to stick together” exist.

    And I also heard that the friendship of males and females can hardly be as good as a female to a female relationship from a woman’s point of view.

    So if those things are true (which I am not sure at all), then how can a man and woman have a special strong type of bond with each other if women have a special strong type of bond with each other while men don’t have one with each other?

    Also, men and women are both mentally and physically different from each other (which is true), but would that at all effect the bonding between a male and female?

  • If she weren’t so pretty I would show this video to my husband, she explains how I feel so well, feeling very misunderstood when I hear I just need to do this or that and I’ll be fine…

  • The one thing i have consistantly noticed with people who have BPD (I dont know if its the same for other diagnosies as well) is the sense of relief when they get the diagnosis. Because it gets missed diagnosed to often, that we end up getting so many different things that dont fit, and when someone is like “BPD” we’re like YAAAAAAY

  • Can you become successful and achieve big things even with this disorder around? I don’t know what to look forward to in my future

  • For people here who have BPD and aren’t diagnosed. Don’t stress about not having a diagnosis. I’m not telling to self diagnose, I’m just telling you that your identity doesn’t need a name. Names make you feel better, but you’re going to have to learn how to go about without one because times like this happen a lot in life. You are who you are. Definition matters more than the word itself.

  • This is a toxic thing my dad does to me,

    When my dad calls my name, I say “yeah?”
    He starts yelling at me to say “hunji” (which is a punjabi word)
    As if I didn’t respond.��

  • He doesn’t think he is sick and he would never get help. When I told him I was going to see someone he said you’re smarter than that. Frustrating

  • Well I’ve been in a relationship for 10 months and let me tell you he is without a doubt BPD and a narcissist covert. Also an alcoholic. It has been really emotionally disturbing for me. I am now seeing a therapist. They may not know what they are doing, but it doesn’t seem that way. It seems like they are constantly playing some kind of rotten game! Basically my therapist would love to see me getaway from this person. It has been an emotional roller coaster. He is the classic covert narcissist and than he can be so nice you think he’s normal and than all hell busts loose. It’s a damaged soul, heart, and mind. And talk about lies he lies about lies. He lies to cover up lies. He’s so masterful with certain behavior that he has been doing for years since he was a child that it is part of his inner core. I have prayed that I could wake up and not have one feeling in my heart for him. It seems to be working. I’m moving away from him. I don’t care as much. He holds love from me he is constantly sending me signals that he doesn’t want to be with me than he’s calling me. My doctor says don’t talk to him for a few weeks. He is verbally abusive. And than I become that.

  • I’m at 1 yr free..on my own!! have I gotten triggered.. yes!!one time I didn’t think I could make it..but I did!! I’m gonna keep trying..congrats

  • I have ocd i just do thing again and again, sometime a voice in my head tell do this or some thing bad will happen and when i do that thing the voice again says do it in right way otherwise it wont work and i end up doing that work many times and i dont know while typing also i am facing this and i have this mental illnes for almost 5 to 6 yrs����

  • Hearing her talk about her work environments not being healthy and having to leave because “she was the problem” broke my heart. Girl you’re not a problem, you’re wonderful and helping so many people.

  • How did you help yourself without feeling guilty about not helping your mother? I’m in the same situation. I’m ready to move on. But she needs help

  • Oh my. Floods. I just got diagnosed a couple weeks ago. With this and complex post traumatic stress disorder. I’m a terrible mess but it’s great to actually have something now to grab onto as opposed to free falling through madness my entire life. Just at the start of this journey and this is a beautiful video to see. Thank you for allowing yourself the vulnerability to share ❤️

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  • I agree with her… the best piece of advice my mom ever gave me was, “look at those around you and learn from the good and the bad choices they make, including me.”

  • I was misdiagnosed repeatedly for 25 years. After I finally got the right name and learned about it, I wanted to crawl under a rock and hide. Of course, my family has been worthless.

  • Hello sweetheart wow went through the same and even now I will feel like that. OMG,! We so much in common I never talk about it but I seen you and listen to you it’s very much like my life. I would like very much to talk to you to help me I also blank out at work it’s very embarrassing and significant other says I’m crazy and it really hurts me because I’m alone seeing you a very beautiful person you are so beautiful �� I’ve never got a hug or complement I feel like I don’t belong I’ve been at my job 35 years and it’s tuff because of how I feel I hide it. How does someone actually get to talk to you because everything you said is how I feel��

  • why did i cry at the end of this video and the 7 signs that you’re in a toxic relationship video
    probably because i know all of them are true in both videos but not at the same time
    what do i do..

  • Makes ya wonder if this covid 19 is yet another cover up for the mental health problems that come from society? I tell you one thing from observering everything I knew something really bad was coming because of the problems arising all over in society… Now we’ve got covid 19.. seems like a repeat of history to me.. I wonder where all those problems came from in the 1960s.. could of been a vaccine.. or you could be decepted and it’s actually just the reprocusions from war and the start of society as we know it.

  • i ALSO HAVE BORDERLINE. Let me tell you guys if you think she’s understating it believe me it’s 100x worse than what you think it is. Imagine your life being a rollercoaster of emotions every single day at every thing and you cant help it. Nobody can. Because nobody feels the same way and fi they do they will eventually get tired and have to focus on their own lives. Hence abandonment.

  • 1. You fight a lot.
    2. You hide things.
    3. This way or the highway.
    4. You feel guilty.
    5. It’s one-sided.
    6. They put you down.
    7. They refuse to do things that matter to you.
    8. You’re codependent.
    9. They make you feel insecure.
    10. They’re abusive.
    11. You change yourself to be what they want.
    12. You’re unhappy.

  • Passion is a form of self love…well that tickles! Often times people say to me ‘why I have such a grit to do things creatively or doing things that people might find very challenging to step to (I am doing some activism about several issues), I think I can do that because otherwise, I don’t have the necessity to stay alive. The constant emptiness (just like explained on the other video), only can be filled that way. So, ya, even contributing to a cause that you truly passionate about is a form of self care.

  • I keep hearing about the stigma of BPD. But there is so much sympathy for people with BPD. People who get attacked by them are told “don’t blame them”” But when someone has NPD everyone like, “oh f%#& them, get away from those a*%holes”. WTF?

  • Looking for a candid description of living with BPD and the BPD’s intent towards their victims? View “Mr BPD” here https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=GszaqTDAlxg&t=382s. His self-aware “BPD Message to Those Hurt” is an eye opener!

  • I have BPD I was 32 before I was properly diagnosed, like her I was relieved to get the right diagnosis because everything I had been through since I hit my teenage years made sense. It’s not easy living with it though.

  • I was diagnosed with bipolar disorder, anxiety, depression, and borderline personality disorder and it sucks bc I had sabotaged many relationships and friendships and jobs

  • What if we just don’t argue. I bottle things up occasionally but it’s all things I don’t feel are worth pushing. We’ve had conversations about the fact that we don’t argue and we are both definitely the insecure passive types. I hate arguing with anyone and most of my close friends and I have never argued so it feels normal to me, and she has also 100% been mad at me and expressed it but we didn’t argue, I knew I was in the wrong. I also feel insecure in the relationship, but I don’t think that’s her fault. She does nothing but shower me with affection and yet I can’t seem to shake these thoughts. I don’t think someone could make me not feel insecure, and what I have is great and I don’t want to throw it away when nothing seems to be going wrong. I think my life recently has just been making me feel down and I have this unrealistic expectation that she should make me feel better and she does nothing but try and get i can’t figure it out. If someone is reading this please give some advice

  • What a lovely woman. So strong, honest & has a fabulous attitude towards all this. You can tell she’s put so much work into learning about her illness. Wonderfully inspiring.

  • It’s really hard to understand that your feelings you are having are inaccurate. Once I understood this I was able to make a decision to to rise out of these feelings. I do not think I was not born this way, I grew up with no stability either. That is the cause of my issues

  • I remember being diagnosed with BPD and I was so happy to finally have an answer to all the struggles that I was going through. It felt as though someone was finally hearing me, and hearing the little girl inside of me saying ” help me”. Still had some systemic barriers to face after receiving the diagnosis however, I feel much better knowing that I’m not the one broken I just have a mental illness. This is something that I can and will manage in my life.

  • The question he asks, do you think your BPD was something you are born with or something that developed shows the interviewer knows nothing about BPD.”Normal” people are born with a personality.Good,bad, weak or whatever That can be worked on because it was included in your birth.Trying to develop something that is unique only to your creation as a human being is actually impossible.The result of not having that essential ingredient as a foundation for growth is all these horrible traits that BPD people like us react to.If you took a “Normal” person and somehow were able to extract their birth given disposition which is the foundation on which they have built who they are now.Who they are now would cease to exist and they would become as we are. Therapy mag give you tools to hide these negative traits and thoughts,but we will never have that inner core that “normal” people have.These normal people do not have this issue and couldn’t possibly understand not having that inner guide. They only have “real problems”and even though they may be nice, tolerant.or downright nasty to our “problem” They really couldn’t care less and eventually just get sick of our presence….

  • I just realized that I am in a healthy relationship, the fact we never argue, except with heart spamming and ´´I LOVE YA MORE´´ which is a good sign. We have been dating for a year right now but frIcK FrAcK CoRoNa dOnT LeT Us mEeT-

  • I have BPD and i really need help and im very scared because Im a full time mother. I do not want to be this way I don’t want my child to suffer from this illness and I suffer pretty bad and I’m to try everything and anything I just can’t loose my child. Im exactly how this lady is me

  • Uhm Hello Guys….. I just want to share my experience. My OCD starts this June when someone reported that on our street there is a positive to Covid 19. At first, its just fine, I can still go outside without worrying too much, I can still touch everything I want to touch ; my things, our cats. But, as the time goes on, I just suddenly became obsessive about cleanliness little by little, day by day. To everything I touched, I should wash or apply some alcohol, and 3 or 4 drops are not enough. I apply alcohol also on my foot everytime I walk around the house before i go to my bed. I really miss my old self. Sometimes I just cry or tantrums quietly. I miss touching our cats, I cant touch them coz I think they have the virus on their fur everytime they go outside.

    I’m still hoping for the vaccine.

    Btw Im from the PH, 16 Years Old

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  • I’ve always wondered what was wrong with me and I relate to all of this. I’m in the shower watching this crying bc it’s so sad how I relate to all of this. But I cant go to my parents to get me a physicratrist Bc I’ll probably just be self diagnosing my self “ “

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  • i really wanna help my friend… but i don‘t know how… i myself have social anxiety and think that if i ask more about this he will feel uncomfortable because of me… at the same time he really needs help but can‘t get some, this is horrible.
    but at least i know a little more about it, thanks

  • My friend Kate is in a relationship with this guy… they’ve been together for like 2 years and… as far as I hear from Kate, she and him are having A LOT of arguing and fighting over small things. I think one of them is secretly unhappy but don’t have the courage to break up. And it hurts me to feel helpless! Just what can I do to help her? Me and Kate have been friends since the first class and I don’t want to hurt her feelings by telling her that she should break up with her boyfriend, but I also can’t put down the feeling that this won’t have a happy ending. Can someone please just tell me, what should I do?
    Should I let it go and let my friend blindly suffer hoping, she’d wake up on her own? Should I tell her straight what’s WRONG and risk our friendship being torn a part? Should I pray the stars to help her and guide her? Please, someone tell me what to do! I hate seeing her like this.

  • I saw my friend watch this and I felt so bad because then I realized I was being so toxic. We’re now better friends and I’m learning how to be a better friend

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  • I just broke up with someone I think was bad for me and this has almost everything that was going on he is trying to put the blame on me and calling me toxic and I don’t know what to do because I think I made the right choice but what if I’m the toxic one

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  • This was so insightful to me. My husband & I had our kids watch this to help them better understand their older sister’s BPD and what she goes through.

  • my relationship of 2years old will dissapear soon, we fight a lot, we kinda broke up already, i just need someone to talk to…someone that can understand me and is willing to listen… idk what to do… i constantly feel that i’m not good enough….

  • I’m diagnosed with BPD as well, and I understand and get everything she says.
    But for me it was different I didn’t got it from a bad childhood or something, I was born with it.
    My mother also has BPD, and I just got it from her.

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  • My dad is very toxic. He has very bad trust issues. He always thinks my mom is talking to other male. He doesnt like it when she talks with her family members. He keeps on interrupting her. He doesn’t let her go outside alone or have time for herself. I told her to take a divorce because he also behaves very badly with me and my brother. We are three siblings. She is in a dilemma. If she leaves him what about us? That’s why she is not letting him go. She had a job but my father made her quit it. Idk anymore please help

  • I’m in an ldr with this guy it’s almost our 3rd monthsary but he has been starting to show his true colors. I was added in this gc where he and his friends were in and there he chatted about stuff that I wasnt aware of and yes the topics included me (he didnt even reply to me but replied to the gc) and my friend told me that they seemed rlly fake. I still love him but I think I’m just too naive for this should I confront him? Break up? Or fix it with him?

  • i feel like i might have ocd. im not saying that because i like to keep things neat or color code things, but i have to do certain things with my body like make a fist a certain number of times while also blinking and licking my lips at the same time. idk it might just be a weird thing i do. let me know if im just worried about nothing lol

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  • After a 2 year relationship with my bf I broke it up with him because he was so obsessed with his religion he would get upset because I didn’t have the same beliefs as him I’m a Catholic he’s Christian

  • Yes, I always feel guilty and insufficient. It’s hard to find partners and friends where I feel I can change and learn. But of course, most of the time,I feel terrible and need to take care of myself something that I am usually bad at.

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  • My dad is very toxic. He had trust issues. He always think my mom is talking to other males. He doesnt like it when she talks with her family members. He keeps on interrupting her. He doesn’t let her go outside alone or have time for herself. I told her to take a divorce because he also behaves very badly with me and my brother. We are three siblings. She is in a dilemma. If she leaved him what about us? That’s why she is not letting him go. She had a job but my father made her quit it. Idk anymore please help

  • This really made me think about my boyfriend, and I think that I really love him, and I am so happy for this relationship we have.

  • experiencing a hard (mutual) breakup right now, and looking back it was one of the best relationships and experiences of my life. It hurts that I know 100% that the man I was with was my soul mate but we both realize that right now isn’t the best timing for us. We’re friends first and foremost and are mature about the split but it just hurts to know that my other half is lost. A part of me hopes it will all work out in the end but as long as he’s happy, with or without me, I will be happy.

  • Im actually really codependent and insecure. Though my bf does everything he can to make me feel secure the comfort and reassurance doesnt live long and i always revert back to overthinking and all my irrational paranoia. Struggling with bipolar in a relationship is extremely difficult. Sometimes you end up being the one causing all the problems or believing there are a million issues when in reality everything is just fine. Like something in your life is always getting caught on fire somehow and instead of just getting a buvket of water to put out a little flame you think you saw you end up calling for emergency vehicles all for what was just a lightbulb or firefly all along. It sucks and its so confusing not knowing the difference between whats imaginary and whats reality.

  • Just a little advice for every couples out there from my own experience with my boyfriend ♥

    Me and my boyfriend often argue with the same little things. Because I admit, I was the first one who always starts a fight beacuse I get easily angry and frustrated, I know I am just depressed that’s why.. So I can control myself not to argue with him everyday, instead, I always sent him a funny memes, sweet quotes or whatever just to lighten up the mood.

    But one day, he got drunk, and call me. he said, why don’t you break up with me, I don’t wanna see you hurting. I understand what he’s saying, he told me to break up because, we often fight with each other he hates to see me crying and suffering from these kind of things we do. But then, I replied to him that I won’t. I won’t let out relationship broke. Why?

    I understand the toxic traits we do.. I empathize the things happened to him from his past relationships, I know that he haven’t moved on how his ex broke up with him and leave him. That’s why I don’t wanna leave him alone. It’s my choice to stay with him, I don’t want to do the same things his ex did to him. I don’t wanna hurt him. I know he’s having a hard time too. This is not all about me. This is not all about my happiness. But also about for his own sake.
    I truly love him, so I will never give up in our relationship for the first time we’ve met, and confess to each other, I already have made up my mind that I am completely committed, and devoted to this person. He was the coolest man I have ever met in my life he makes me happy, he makes me so special.. But he always teases me �� but I don’t mind it as long as it makes him happy.

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  • Im not sure but I might have this. If I don’t say I love you to my mum when I leave the house i get really anxious that something will happen to her and I won’t see her again. Also, if I’m at work and I need to complete a task. I cant stop the task until it is absurdly perfect. Otherwise I think I will be fired or I will get bad luck and feels if I have failed. There are so many more things like this but won’t fit in a comment probably! Can someone tell me whether I have symptoms of OCD?

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  • I have this s/o and she keeps putting me down and when I talk to her about it, she tries to invalidate my feelings by saying “I think you’re being too sensitive.” What should I do?

  • 1) you fight a lot 2) you hide things( dishonest actions) 3) relationship revolved around one person 4) feeling gulity that you have no time for urself 5 ) one sided relationship 6 ) putting down your dreams 7) they dont make any effort to do things 8 ) being codependent 9) making you feel insecure 10) abusive

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  • Point 4 (holding grudges) is a major problem in my relationship.
    I love my gf and we get along very well, but I can’t forget/forgive what she’d done in her past. It’s this one specific thing she did that just breaks my heart everytime I think about it. It’s not like I don’t want to forgive her, I just CAN’T.
    Any advice?

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  • My husband and I are going through a ruff patch. He doesn’t like to talk or kiss me. we haven’t had sex in so long I can’t even remember when was the last time. I’m always sad but I try to put a smile on my face

  • I don’t normally comment but i would like to know ppls opinion, so me and my bf were internet best friends i know him for about a year now we really clicked fast we have sooo so so many things in common and its scary anyways he fell in luv w me and i did too, he would talk to me 24/7 about everything we used to so so many things together. I was scared of relationships but we both wanted eachother as bad so he asked me out i was really scared and i told him that im really sensitive,, and were now together for 3 months. So hes kind but the main issue is he gets mad fast at me and says some words that would hurt me not insulting me though, when we both argue he ditches me and whenever i say anything he says ok legit to mostly everything. But somtimes he says if u see me not giving u attention its bcuz idk how to say it nor express them he also says that i would be lost without u i rlly got u to u he also says that no matter what happens forgive me bcuz i might just be mad.. These days he doesn’t even have time to text me bcuz hes busy playing video games. I feel like he doesnt give the effort in a relationship.. Even when i sent him today a cute text about how i i luv him and that id be by his side threw ups and downs he lauged and said cute (he doesnt know what to say anyways idk thats him) then he was like dont send me these quotes i already know u luv me,:( i felt guilty i just wanted him to smile and shit he was like dont get mad thats just me. Anyways he doesnt call me baby bcuz idk were both new to relationships umm also when i get mad i say we were better off as friends i dont wanna loose u he replies “if u want this to end ok” i reply “do u want it to end he says no” cuz me too, he said today that if we break up im not gonna be friends with u” x_x it means he would never talk to me opinions? (Sorry its too long)

  • I hate my ocd ever since my guinea pig passed I always check if my other guinea pig is safe all the time and I also check if the doors are locked and a lot more pls help me

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  • This honestly broke my heart and makes me happy because we do every-single-one on the list. I love him to death but we have to separate because our lives are on different paths. Hurts more now that we are healthy good relationship and it still has to end.

  • 1. Yes. But we’ve been so open and talked so much that we don’t even know what to talk about sometimes, so we sit in silence lol
    2. Yes. But not very much because he doesn’t like making people upset and neither do I, do we just talk things out.
    3. Yes! Actually we have been dating almost a year and have only told a handful of people
    4. Yes. He has a hard time holding grudges against me. I can’t keep any against him
    5. Yes
    6. Yes. Of course, he knows that my personal time is very important since I’m very introverted
    7. Yep but we normally share everything we are doing
    8. Yes. Calling as much as we can to talk and play video games
    9. Yep, but like I said. Sometimes we have to actually look up topics and questions to ask each other
    10. Yep, we always talk about what we want to do when we meet and in our future together.
    11. I guess? He is kinda accidentally (unconsciously) romantic lol. But sexual anything isn’t possible since we are long distance
    12. Yes. Yes they always make me feel better about myself and I got him because we accept each other’s insecurities and problems and support each other through them however we can.

  • Kind of hard to be in a healthy relationship if guys aren’t serious about commitment, are looking for hookups, or want a relationship to last a few months or 2 years (dating sites, actually not “dating” sites” hookups sites more like it. I mean why the fk even be with someone if people are not interested in the long hall, how is it ok to use people like that?? You should only look for a relationship if you’re serious about it for the rest of your life and want to settle down, if that doesn’t apply to you than leave people the fk alone.:)

  • i have depression but didn’t know why, i tried to watch many videos trying to understand why i feel all those symptoms, after watching this, now i understand why..

    my parents make remarks as obvi affects me, when i do something which i’m not sure about in their presents, its hard to assume how they will react. they always tell me that the remarks they make is just for fun or that i shouldn’t take it seriously, they almost make all the comments mentioned in the video and just say to take it easy. they act like nothings wrong or don’t understand. when my father makes remarks on how i act, my mother joins in making it harder for me to handle it. “why aren’t you like the other kids?” or “why can’t you be disciplined”, “we are tired of teaching you how to behave” and so on. i wish i had someone to help me or make me feel better. i think i can open up my feelings here in this video because a lot of you will understand and not make more remarks doing this for attention, at least, i hope that wont happen. thank you for reading this who ever you are but i hope you are having a more open life than i am.

  • I’m not in a healthy marriage. If the bad keeps getting bad I’m gonna have to leave. We developed an unhealthy dependence on eachother and that’s not a marriage.

  • So I’ve told her I’m unhappy, im miserable, I HATE YOU for everything you have done, its just too much but then she says the old,” ill kill myself if u leave, ill never make it without you,”

  • MY dad is the ONLY parent i know that is nice my mom and the parents of every other kid i know are nice but they can be really mean ( my mom loves me but she is just to toxic most of the time )

  • wait a minute, this video literally has the exact same script as another video of theirs does and they only changed the drawings a bit.

  • I had a girl that never liked me and I felt like I could never address things with them bc we ended up in fights. I was walking on egg shells. Its impossible to Express in one comment. But I still liked them. I saw them call this girl pretty and stare at them with a loving look. They never looked at me like that. They should many of these signs but had it way worse so I didnt bring it up to them bc I’m a burden. They made me feel worse but they have depression, anxiety, and alot of things. They later said they liked that girl. I sobbed and couldn’t stop that night and on and off for so long. I’m giving in to what there saying I’m such a wimp and to young and childish and overdramatic. There other friends are to much for me and wouldnt be offended. Hope you see this.

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    To be more specific: I value school and education. Im an average B student, nothing spectacular, but I get anxious and freak out if my grades drop. However, my partner has been failing tests and even a few classes. This bothers me like crazy!!! I try to help and influence my perspective on grades, but in the end there’s a different level of importance on school for the both of us.

    What is a healthy way to view this difference?

  • 《¤¤Summary¤¤》
    1: Communication
    2: Argue
    3: Privacy
    4: You don’t hold grudges
    5: You have realistic expectations
    6: You take time for yourself
    7: You trust each other
    8: You enjoy spending time together
    9: You’re Friends
    10: You make decisions together
    11: You get intimate
    12: You make each other better

  • Transparent and open communication
    Effective arguing
    Relationship problems are not broadcasted
    Grudges are not held on to
    Realistic expectations of each other
    You take time and space for yourself
    Secure trust in each other
    You enjoy spending time with each other
    You are friends!
    You make decisions together practice the art of compromise
    Intimate and affectionate
    You help each other be better people (help each other not “fix” each other)

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  • 1 you communicate openly
    2 you argue
    3 you keep relationship details private
    4 you don’t hold grudges
    5 you have realistic expectations
    6 you take time and space for yourself
    7. You trust each other
    8. You enjoy spending time together
    9. You’re friends
    10. You make decisions together
    11. You get intimate
    12. You make each other better

  • Number 6 is a struggle with me and my girlfriend we depend on each other

    I want to help her grow as an independent but its hard to communicate that to be an individual she has to disconnect from me so she can grow as her own individual

    I don’t know how to tell here that without it sounding like I don’t want to be with her.

  • 1. you communicate openly

    2. you argue instead of just bottling it up

    3.you keep relationship details private

    4. you dont hold grudges

    5. you have realistic expectations

    6. you take time and space for yourself

    7. you trust each other

    8. you enjoy spending time together

    9. you’re friends

    10. you make decisions together

  • Here is the video about “ideal relationships,” which are also called “healthy relationships.” In five minutes, it teaches us how our relationships should be and what we do wrong if they aren’t. Although we may agree on many points presented in the video, our gloom grows beyond belief as we imagine a real couple built their relationship according to this model. There is only one thing left to those who communicate openly, know how to argue, keep relationship details private, have no problems with grudges, have realistic expectations, take time and space for themselves, have a life outside the relationship, trust each other, enjoy spending time together, have friendship, make decisions together, get intimate, and make each other better. You know that thing, don’t you? Fortunately, life itself doesn’t fit mere logical exercises and we’ll never be swallowed by pure rationalism. We got it! Our relationship is eventually ideal and healthy! Honey, please give me your gun-

  • wanted to follow her on insta, so i looked her up, hoping to find an expression of her transformation (as she states here), but I must admit I was disappointed. I guess I expected an expression of her which, to me, would be more authentic of her, than that which she displays on her insta.

  • So I met this new guy. We cried on our first date. We laughed and we had a great conversation. But we are not physical there for each other. But he loves me and I love him. And I wanna be with him. But I’m scared that he’ll hurt me because I’m not available physically for him. We both are gay and I’m a bottom and so is he. But our emotions are so strong and it’s beautiful.

  • One thing left out is everyone can be crabby from built up stressors of the day. Pick your battles. I get crabby cuz my kids are messy, etc..and may snap, I LOVE my hubby let’s me be crabby without automatically thinking its him.

  • I was so relieved to see number 2. Me and my boyfriend will argue sometimes if something one or the other does upsets us but we’re always able to talk it out and come to a place where we can understand each other better. I completely understand why you say it’s important for a relationship:)

  • Me and my best friend do al the things you just named but he doesn’t see us as a item, he sees us as just friends wile i hope thati could be more

  • arguing? it feels so wrong i dont wanna fight the person i really like i dont want her been negative towards me i want us to get along like really good friends as well as a couple, when we fight we say horrible things to eachother i never came for a war i just want us to be happy.

  • Yeah true that and he works in healthcare too,God bless him.����
    Funny we experience even the unhealthy relationship traits and he still loves /want to keep the relation i hope we dont turn to enemies too iam a killer when iget angry and at least cut were you cant forgive me even if they want to thank God i dont get in this stat of mind much, i dont want to a juvienelle.��������

  • The only thing i had a problem with in my relationship with my girlfriend in the beginning was trust issues.
    because i have been cheated on before i became afraid of that happening again, but i never want my girlfriend to feel responsible for what someone else did to me.
    i fixed my trust issues by asking myself, do i love her?-i said, yes ofcourse i do!,do i want to spend the rest of my days with her?yes!
    after asking myself that my trust issues almonst completely went away.

    What can maybe you learn from this?, even after all the failed attempts at a relationship, never ever take it out on your partner and give them a chance to prove their trust to you in the beginning, it will pay out i promise.

    ofcourse it won’t always work but it could.

  • I feel trapped when I’m in a relationshipI think I should stay friends with everyoneI think I needa be single and die single because the girl I’m with is my TRUE TRUE love but I feel like I should be her friend because she is not healthy for me…I love her…..

  • I’m in a long distance relationship for five months now, and my boyfriend got upset because I cut my hair without his consent, is it wrong?

  • I just got out of a year long relationship today with a guy who would disappear randomly without warning. Like, he’d be gone for days. Sometimes over a week. He’d come back with excuses like “I broke my phone” or “internet went down” and even once he had a heart attack at his job (one time occurrence, still disappeared afterwards and once admitted he was trying to “escape me”). It scared me and I began to slowly go into a downwards spiral. He’d blame me for getting angry with him for disappearing. No matter what I tried, he wouldn’t put in the time I needed to have in order to feel secure. It made me question if I was being too clingy and controlling and it overall made me feel like a terrible person. All until he cheated on me with my best friend and everything went to hell. Now I’m trying to educate myself on how a relationship SHOULD run since I’m still new to the dating game. It’s hard and I’m scared of being alone, but honestly, I feel relieved.

  • Me and my bf never argued, instead, if he gets annoyed at me, he’ll just be honest with me and I’ll try to not do the things that annoys him again. We love each other too much to argue lol.

  • Transparency…..yes
    Argue…..yes
    Relationship details private….yes
    Don’t hold grudges…..yes
    Realistic expectations….yes
    Space own self…..yes
    Trust each other……yes
    Enjoy time together…..yes
    We are friends……yes
    Decide together…..yes
    Intimacy……yes
    Make each other better……yes
    Oh really?We are in healthy relationship❤️May god bless us❤️��

  • We have been together for 6.5 years, we have 2 kids together. We’re not the perfect couple but we are in a healthy relationship. But how do you keep it that way when one of you is sick and most of the stress is piled onto one partner more than the other?

  • One year ago i watched this and think “aaw my boyfriend is amazing i can relate to all of this” and now i watch this and… i dont know i feel lost and sad and pathetic

  • The biggest mistake i did, was thinking that im the only one who can make her happy. It was the root of my jealousy, im ashame of myself but im glad im learning a lot from her.

  • I just got out of one and number seven was big for me until she broke it.if u are goin out with a friend and I’m the boyfriend why can’t I know who he is?

  • Damn I’m realizing how lucky I am to have my parents. They tell me I was the best thing to ever happen to them, and they couldn’t live without me, and it’s not “‘my house, my rules”, it’s “our house”. I knew not every house was like that but I didn’t realize it was this bad

  • I started dating my best friend 2 months ago, he’s an Amway boyfriend we trust each other so much and we know everything about each other.

  • Number 12 was a good one for me. I had to recently cut ties from a potential relationship due to the fact that I was waiting for this person to “fix” themselves for me. I had taken my part to be a better person and use all of these points. Once I realized I wasn’t able to fully trust this person, then I had to cut it off. I hope in the near future I’ll be able to find someone I can trust again. I really thought this person could have been “the one.”

  • The most toxic thing my parents do is compare me like Oh WHy cAnt yOU dress like your friends (sometimes it hurts sometime it doesn’t)

  • I opened this video feeling kinda scared of what could it contain because im kinda insecure ^^’ but actually i feel really glad that i believe my relationship fits in all the 12 points so… yeah, it s definitely not perfect but it s not impossible to have a healthy relationship^^

  • My relationship has been really healthy so far, he is so nice to me��������������I love him so much, its my first boyfriend, we have been dating a year and a month.

  • 2:04 THAT PART MADE ME FREAKING CRY ITS SO SAD:(((((
    SO SAD THAT HE’S THROWING HIS TOY AWAY JUST FROM SOMETHING HIS MOM SAID
    ITS SO SAD WHAT THE FUCK
    WORDS HURT

  • Finally found this kind of relationship after series of failed relationships. To the one reading this, hopefully you get to find yours too.

  • After seeing this I can happily say that YES I’M IN A HEALTHY RELATIONSHIP ❤️�� you don’t need to be perfect, you just need to complete each other, just stay for no reason ❤️❤️✨

  • Maybe if i am old enough i’ll adopt a kid that got taken away by their parents bc they abused him/her. And i will give him/her a very good life. Or i’ll become a teacher and teach stuff in a fun way

  • 1. Communication
    2. You argue
    3. Privacy
    4. You don’t hold grudges
    5. You have realistic ideas
    6. You take time for yourself
    7. You trust each other
    8. You spend time together
    9. You’re friends
    10. You make decisions together
    11. You get intimate
    12. You make each other better.

  • Hi Psych2go. Parents can make toxic/hurtful comments but parents aren’t toxic. Saying they are toxic puts them into box snd simplifies the issues.

  • i don’t know if this even means anything, but i have to do something to the most highest quality to feel slightly satisfied. an example is when i read something, i have to read it a good 8 or more times, and even when i’m finished reading it, i go back to read it again in case i’ve missed something. i also have terrible thoughts that stop me from doing things, like getting a license, i have these urges to harm myself, i can’t get my license because i’m scared i’ll do something to someone or myself. i’ve suffered with this for a while, i don’t know if i can even go to a psychologist, my thoughts are really intrusive and terrible.

  • Not in a relationship, but I might be soon. I met someone online, and have been getting what can best be described as the total opposite of red flags as we’ve worked to set up our first date. I’ll be keeping these in mind as we continue this journey together

  • Ahem, my fav quotes ft. My mom��

    “Stop being fat”
    “Ur useless”
    “Ur a dunce”
    “Dumba**”
    “Dummy”
    “Don’t be re****”
    “Stop crying people I’ll give u something to cry abt”

    And much more��

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  • “I give up with you!!”
    “Why aren’t you like the other kids?!”
    “You’re really skinny.”
    “If you get sick I wouldn’t care for you”
    “That’s why you dkdjsjaj because its what you’re doing”

    It just hurts my dad saying that to me and like I’m not a good child…that I’m not good enough for them and they expect a better child than I am…even if I achieve something, He wouldn’t care. Being bullied in school made it worse….I’ve been so insecure in my self..I barely have any friends..

  • Some of this stuff happens to me and I think I don’t trust my family anymore I really don’t tell them anything and I always think someone will turn on me uh I will stop now this is really long fells good letting things out

  • My mom always does the slams on the wall and 2 seconds later she be saying I’m SOrRy and im like in my head my dude really slammed me in the wall and gonna be fixed with a sorry.

  • My parent has say this to me. This make me feel like I’m useless and hating on myself but I never told them anything about I feel..

  • 47 year old wife and mother of two boys in tears over this because it brought me back right to my childhood. I have broken the cycle and spend my life teaching kids their individual value!! Thank you for this channel.

  • Sometimes i fight with my boyfriend and i will publish some posts that are indirects towards him, does this count as passive aggressive? i dont talk to anyone about our problems except on my group of friends on whatsapp of course

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  • I have severe OCD and I know I’m not alone. It really is mental torture. I suffer greatly from it and I know that a lot of people as well. You’re not alone and you will beat this ocd sickness. Stay strong and don’t give up. Seek professional ocd help and take the ocd meds like Luvox. Good luck every1!

  • I can say my kids were vicious to me I worked 2 jobs for them was stressed out half the time I was very loving that is my instinct

  • Momsays mean words
    Mecrys
    Momim sorry..
    Meu say sorry but keep doing it.

    Sisteru dont know anything!
    Mei do know things!
    MomLINA SHUT UP GET AWAY FROM YOUR SISTER!
    Mestarts arguing with my sister
    Momhits me with a bear
    Mewalks away

  • Me and what i keep to myself “please just get me out of this place, please help me, help me,please anyone help me “

    Also me “No on will help i’ll just have to get out myself “

  • I remember when I lied abt smth and my parents found out and my mom said: yeah but what did I expect you’re a nasty liar and you will always be. I lied a lot when I was little and with little I mean around the age of 4. I’m 14 now and my parents still bring it up everytime we need to talk abt smth: we trust your sister more then you because you always lie

  • so childs / teens.. respect your parents no matter what.. in future, your child will respect or listen to you.. my parent said that.. for toxic parents, please respect them and try to communicate with your parents more..:)

  • Idk if this is ocd but I’m always having these thoughts where I get scared thinking when Im not with my family members something bad will happen with them and can someone please tell me what happening I keep thinking 4 times each time I blink

  • Whatever happened, always remember to ourselves that, even though we’re wounded because of our parents’ toxic actions/& words, they actually don’t know how to be the best parents on the world too.

    We might be hurt, they did us wrong,

    But there’re no perfect parents, and let’s forgive them, heal ourselves after being aware of it. Then, continue to grow up & learn to be better in the rest of our life.
    🙂

  • Me and my best friend have liked each other for like ever but he had broken up (it was a rly bad breakup) with this girl and he needed time which I understood, so we stayed friends. It’s been 4 months since he said we should stay friends but yesterday HE ASKED ME OUT! Now we are dating and I’ve never been happier. I love him so much. I’ll hopefully remember to come back in a year and see if we are still together ����

  • Me: crying

    Dad: Shut the actual frick up, cry in another room it’s annoying

    Mom: stop crying, you should be like your sister brave, mature and strong

  • i have bad anxiety and a fear of yelling. my mom is very strict. i just try and say “okay okay” to help her stop but she will just yell at me for saying that. but she is really fun ��

    especially around her boyfriend she is just like “say this say that”

    last time my mom yelled at me because she says “why dont you go outside and do something for once” i go outside alot and skate around my neighborhood and im going to be swimming all day.. she dont know that i have anxiety like that, it might not seem as bad to you as me, but it really hits me hard.

  • I believe I suffer from bpd, I’ve been looking for help but can’t seem to find any help that I can afford, i don’t know what to do, can’t afford therapy and i don’t have medical insurance.

  • My bro is 22 years old and he smokes and he still lives at the same house as me and my parents. And he was a kid played football and he did other hobbies and he got bored and stopped all the hobbies he did… I play piano,volleyball,goes to English clasess (Cuz from a different country) and i do robotic. Am 12 and its kinda too much for me and I stop liking piano and I told my mum I wanna stop playing piano and she said this: No u are not gonna stop playing piano cuz you are gonna end up like ur brother.
    I said: No am not gonna end up like him… And what makes u think am gonna end like him…?
    She said: Cuz ur brother did the same thing. He got bored of everything and end up being lazy and stop liking everything.
    I said: No am gonna end being lazy.
    That conversation was going on for 10 minutes. Then the next day my childhood best friend came to my house and were talking with which schools we are gonna go both of us wanted to go to different schools and my mum this: Why don’t u go to the same school that Rick is going that they are gonna play more music and that stuff.
    I said: Cuz I don’t wanna play piano anymore or anything that has to do with music.
    My said: We said you are not gonna stop play piano.
    And then got and screamed: WHY?!
    She said: BECAUSE YOUR GOING TO END UP LIKE YOUR BROTHER
    We end up fighting in front of my best friend’s mom and in front of my best friend and then I started crying ran into my room slamming the door and started whispering to myself that am not going to end up like and I could hear my best friend’s mom telling my mom that if I wanna stop playing piano I should stop and my heart twas shattering…. And I know that u all are gonna say to me that she wants the best for me and that am being dramatic but it just hurts so much that she says that I going to end like my brother being and other things…

  • Sorry but she is more bipolar than borderline. People with Bdp are batshit insane and impulsive when they speak they are very dramatic, its like a Hollywood audition

  • Yes omg u feel like I can finally get help..15 yrs several doc saying hi polar #2 with mania now adhd and bpd and it feels right idk u said it so perfect ty

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  • My parents call me names like ‘bitch’ and ‘attention seeker’ and ‘brat’ and i tell them that it hurts and i call myself that but they say that ‘it’s what a parent does’ because they yell and ig frightens me. It’s my mom tho…i feel like i have a anxiety attack all the time and they say that i ‘get myself worked up’ and they say that they should take me to a isilem and they talk bad about me behind my back and even while right there infront of them. They don’t care! They do things for me but it just seems like the gift they got me is a empty box! They say they understand but they don’t! I only live for one person and that person isn’t even related to me…idk if yhey caused my depression but for me that what it seems like…i’m scared to tell my theripast anything because of my trust issues and i don’t want to be around them. I just want the person i’m living for to be here and to comfort me…but they’re not and i’m alone in my room…i wish someone was here…

  • I thought it’s normal in starting but it’s actually killing me softly
    We don’t used to have good communication and that’s why we talk but didn’t share actually what’s in heart and second is whenever she’s around she make quite distance I mean it can happen two times or three times but everytime and she even tell me she not miss me like I miss her through out the day..
    Maybe I’m lacking behind somewhere but I really loved her so much and don’t want this relationship break
    I even used to cry sometimes I told her it’s not good for our relationship that lack of communication and keep distance even we’re alone.. I even asked if she not trust me on her safety or don’t want if I hold her hand
    She said its nothing like that and smiles and here I am crying over her whole night and she not even have thought of it..

  • I feel like……im no use all i get is verbal insults making me feel as if everything i do is wrong my existence wasnt supposed to be idk wat to do anymore im just trying to die faster U^U

  • Yes, my mom was verbally, mentally and emotionally abusive to me. One thing I remember that she said was I’ll never amount to anything.

  • Me: I got an 80 on a test
    Parents:Why didn’t you study hard enough to get 100. You’re making me waste all this money on school meanwhile you never work hard

    Then they wonder why I do self harm

  • Guess I do have OCD, every time I check all internet devices are parallel and not messy, checking the table is parallel and even sitting on the chair in front of a straight parallel table in class ��

  • I always feel like washing my hands everytime I touch “something” like the door handle. I double triple check the gate and doors being locked because I feel like someone might break in and it’d be my fault if my family dies or we get robbed. I hate it.
    But I haven’t been diagnosed with OCD

  • Idk if it’s OCD but I HAVE to wash the dishes in a certain order, like pots and pans first, then cutting boards then biggest to smallest plates and Tupperware, then all cups and mugs, and I put the smaller cups in the larger cups in order, then I wash the knives, then the big spoons and lemon squeezer nd stuff like that, then forks and spoons, and then at the end I wash the forks and spoons that were used with peanut butter, and if someone adds some big dishes while I already passed them, I start crying because now the dishes will be out of order on the rack and what if something happens because they were not left the way they were put the 1st time or something.

    Also when the cup song was a thing, I had a tendancy to keep making the beat with my foot, hand, or anything really like so many times a day, that I got so frustrated with it because every time I did it, I felt like I HAD to finish the beat or else I was going to be stuck in something and it would stop other things that have to happen from happening, like the butterfly affect, and it got super bad I tried to stop and couldn’t, but then I learned some sign language and now I just spell out my thoughts with my hands instead. But sometimes it goes overboard like I feel like one have to end a sentence or else I’ll be stuck there and can’t move forward. So idk..

    I was gonna say more but this comment is way too long as it is… Oops..

  • Maybe I’m wrong but here’s a little story that’s giving me trouble right now, read it and see what you think. I’m a guy, 19, been suffering from depression since the violent divorce of my parents in 2008 and there’s probably other things I’m not diagnosed with that I suspect might be wrong with me. Almost three years ago, I moved from my mother’s house to my dad’s house to get my life together and try and get a good high school diploma. Around winter is when I started getting sweet with this girl and we were madly in love for two years. The first year was amazing and my depression basically disappeared despite me going cold Turkey on my meds. This summer she broke up with me after around 4-6 months of a continuously deteriorating relationship. I hard to move to a different city for college and up until February/March things were great, then it all went downhill. In retrospect she told me how she couldn’t stop questioning her feelings towards me and whether I’m the right guy for her or not. She told me she would cry everyday in the shower and started cutting herself on her legs in the shower. I tried telling her that I want to fix things but she already ruined the relationship in her mind. We still talk after cutting contact a couple of times but always reaching out for one another after a couple of weeks, I told her I would either want the chance to fix what we had or I would need to cut contact because it’s mentally draining for me to pretend I’m fine with being just friends. Now here’s the part that’s really relevant to this video. I learned of something called RSOCD, relationship sustainability ocd, in which the victim has to think about the little details that might be off in the relationship or the doubt in their own feelings and purpose in the relationship obsessively until the relationship is basically destroyed, despite how happy it might have been. I’m no expert but I am a good observer, I feel like she is a neurotic personality, she is very orderly, gets upset when things aren’t done to a strict routine etc, she absolutely loves the Sims and games where you solve chaos into order. With the way she tore down the relationship in her mind and her obsessive tendencies I feel like this might be a possibility, but I’m unsure as to how I should try to talk to her about it. If anyone here has some personal experience with this topic please share, I’m willing to learn to try and make things right.

  • I don’t have compulsions, but I do have many uncomfortable intrusive thoughts many times a day, I don’t know if it is OCD or something else

  • 10.5-11.5/12?
    4. I’m not entirely sure where my partner stands on grudges. I’ve never seen her hold a grudge against me but has held strong grudges on people who have tried to hurt me.

    6. This is something we need to work on.
    We basically call or talk for many hours per day and we do a lot together. This will change when I study more, but I’m a little worried about them and their independence.

  • Hey I have a question I broke up with ex 3 months ago(I broke up) because I was like ” I can’t take it anymore” because we argue alot like really a lot and I was a little childish and sometimes her family was like not so fun(expect the parents) and yeah I pushed her down like when I’m angry but sometimes I was really childish but I almost help her in some dangerous them but I was also tired inside we didn’t cheat on each other but yeah she hit me but I didn’t in the past and I said some mean things about her. But i had some help because I was really sad and depressed about it and want to end it all. But I had some help of my therapists and got out with a friend and my cousins but don’t know if i still have feelings for her I still have and want it to let it go and I just do my own thing but I can’t let it go I just can’t and sometimes I hope we can hang out as friends and maybe in the future we will be back together but my parents say it’s not gonna happen again (because they got divorced) but I still have feelings for but also I’m just tired of it. And till this day we are still not talking to each other and I was playing video games and with my phone and didn’t give her the time she needed but I was like so tired like really tired

    So my question is. Is that possible to be friends with your ex and maybe in the future we will be back together��

  • Hey guys, I’m new to this so I’ll introduce myself now and I’ll tell you a little bit about my life so far. So I’m a 17 years old girl and my OCD started 4 months ago.
    I was deep into new age spirituality and law of attraction / hypnosis / subliminals etc. After the isolation during the corona lockdown I suddenly had a panic attack in school and after that I had a derealization. This happened four months ago and I feel like I’ve been losing my mind and identity ever since then. My life feels so different.
    I’ve had a lot of different OCD themes and thoughts.
    Some of my ocd thoughts were for instance:
    what if I am a psychopath?
    what if I have a brain tumor?
    what if I am losing my mind?
    what if I have schizophrenia?
    what if I am already dead?
    what if I’m alone on this planet?
    what if my mom has a twin and my mom isn’t really here right now and it’s just her twin?
    what if a demon attacks me?
    what if I’m possessed?
    what if I insulted God and had blasphemous thoughts about the holy spirit?
    etc…

    As you can see, the list is long and I could name a lot more thoughts.
    But recently I stumbled upon something I really can’t get out of my mind and no matter how much research I do, I feel like either no one relates or everyone agrees to my fears.

    It’s this: Mk ultra / SRA and trauma based mind control

    So I’ve been reading something about hypnosis on the internet the last days because I was anxious that I might have been stuck in a hypnotic state ever since my first panic attack (another intrusive thought lol)

    I then saw something about mk ultra and that it’s still going on. If any of you don’t know what mk ultra / sra and tbmc is you can do your research but I don’t want you to be triggered… It’s basically all around mind control and dissociative disorder and abuse.

    It’s scary because I never had weird time lapses or anything which could proof that I have DID (dissociative identity disorder) or BPD (bipolar disorder) but somehow it is just stuck in my mind.

    The scariest part is that I’m starting to get paranoid around my family / friends and even my therapist. It’s similar to the Truman show delusion which some people have… I feel like everyone just plays tricks and abuses me when I’m on drugs or anything. (I’m never consciously taking drugs but I have the fear of “what if they drugged me”?)

    It just scares me because so many people believe in mind control…

    And here comes another thing: I think it’s false memory ocd but ever since I’ve read something about mind control I can’t be sure.

    When I was younger (around 6 or 7) I had a lot of pervert sexual thoughts but they never bothered me. I had thoughts about my uncle or grandfather for example and how I’d have been having sex with them… I now it sounds disgusting. Some of my friends say it’s completely normal to have such thoughts as a kid because as kids we don’t know if it’s disturbing or not. Years ago I’d have been completely sure that these thoughts were just thoughts but ever since I’ve read something about repressed memories / abuse and dissociation I am so scared that those are not thoughts but real events. I’ve read on this forum that some people had this issue too, so I’m a little bit relieved but no one ever talked about mk ultra so I’m so damn scared. Because mk ultra victims always say “when you have that inner sense / intuition that you are a mk ultra victim then it might be true.” but I think all of you guys can relate that we who have OCD could never trust our intuition…

    I’m just so scared because I somehow feel really uncomfortable around my family now. Not just around my grandfather and uncle but also around my mom etc because I’d always think they all now about everything and they are just playing with me… I also think this about some friends.

    And sometimes I have the fear that I have DID even though I made a test online which said I definitely don’t have DID. I just don’t know what to do…. I feel so paranoid and alone and scared and confused.

  • for me it’s like in my brain i’ll tell myself “ if i don’t touch my ceiling my whole family will die” or if i walk i’ll randomly need to walk in that place again because i’ll feel like it wasn’t perfect. HELP

  • I just wanna know I have really dark thoughts like if I dont do somthing I’m gonna die or if step on somthing my family is gonna die… is that ocd?

  • I think I have OCD, but not to an extent that it threatens me. So maybe I don’t have it. Going through the comment section, i feel sorry for everyone. Cause even those slight symptoms make me go crazy then all of you have gone through so much more, that now I feel, I don’t have OCD.
    Avoiding the lines on floor and trying to stay in the boxes and counting, taking care of right and left foot…// Anyone?

  • This doesn’t have much to do with the video but, don’t give up. We can all make it together through these words. The good things can’t happen if the bad things don’t.

    Getting said, “go die” everyday, seeing it through a screen can hurt as much as it being said face to face. I hope nobody here doesn’t ever experience that. Despite what you done, Suicide isn’t the answer. (Random info about this but I was 6-8 when this happened. So it’s in the past)

  • Sometimes when I move something on my skin, I need to move it back in the opposite direction or else it doesn’t quite feel right. I also frequently need to perform certain actions multiple times uh different ways until I feel genuinely okay with it or else I feel not right. Don’t know if it’s OCD, I’ve had multiple testings and I have severe anxiety and depression but they didn’t say I had OCD. My dad has it pretty bad though.

  • On tiktok I watch 5×5 videos. Then 5 more videos to represent each previous group of 5. Then finally 1 (sometimes 2) to represent the whole experience. Just one of my many repetitious rituals lol

  • Watching this after a break up and noticing that we actually could have checked off 10 out of 12…. why did we end something that was working just fine?…

  • Idk if it’s a symptom of ocd or not, but sometimes when I’m in a quiet atmosphere with people around me, my brain just thinks that I’m gonna get up and start shouting. But.. it never really happens. I mean.. it’s just like there is something telling me or more precisely PUSHING me to do that. But I never do it.

    And now… Things that I do being an OCD.
    – Checking the locks, gas stove, doors, etc MULTIPLE times.
    – Touching something with my right hand if I touched it with the left one.
    – having a debate whether to put the left leg first or the right one.
    – (this one’s a bit weird) when I write the letter ‘ i ‘ or ‘ j ‘ with my hand on a piece of paper, if the dot (title) is not at the place that I want it to be, it triggers me. When I go back to make it correct, it spoils even further and ends ups frustrating me. Arghhh!! The feeling is terrible.
    – If I’m drinking water and accidentally a spill it on one of my foot, it will literally put it on my dry foot just to make it even. And then I do it couple of times more.
    – Play a song again from the beginning just because there were some interruptions and I couldn’t get the FEEL of it
    – I go to library and choose a book. When I’m about to go and sit on the chair, my gaze diverts to the shelf. THE BOOKS ARE NOT IN CORRECT ORDER. I leave the study thoughts aside and start arranging it.
    – I suddenly get thoughts like.. something bad is gonna happen. So I try to replace them with good ones. But this just stresses the hell out of me.
    – Before using the stairs, I count the steps. It should always end with my right foot. For example, if there are 5 steps to reach a certain place, I would put my right foot first, then left, right, left and then finally the right one.

    I don’t wanna do these. But I can’t help but to do these.

  • Yall i have advanced OCD. Some atheist and anti religious thoughts come to mind which disrespects my religion and I CANT GET OVER IT HELPPPP

  • Is mine considered as ocd?? Like there’s always this voice in my head saying if i dont breath/exhale 8×5 times my grandmama will die or i’ll have a bad luck throughout the day. I also have a habit of staying away from corners because i think it has lasers that could harm me hehe. And i have to put random things down in a very perfect spot away from corners.

  • it’s weird looking at other people and realising they don’t have it. sometimes i can’t even watch people stepping on cracks as it makes me feel too anxious.

  • I’m writing this here because I have no where else to say this. I’m a 14 year old and I have these rituals, but I don’t want to self diagnose. Whenever I walk down my hallway, I have to step on every other tile. If I want to open an app I have to do it 3 different times before actually using the app. Every night I push my bed against the wall 8 times and if I don’t I feel like my family is in danger. I’m afraid to ask to be properly diagnosed because I don’t want to be a financial burden. I don’t know why I’m typing this, I just needed to get it out.

  • A lot of these comments are old and I don’t know if anyone will see this but I often experience intrusive thoughts of awful things happening, or wondering if I’m still a good person, or thinking if I matter at all to the people around me. I don’t know if I have any compulsions, besides the fact that when I’m assigned something (like homework) I instantly feel upset until I finish it. I don’t know if this is OCD, but I do want to know if I should seek help.

    A few months ago I was assigned a humongous project (assembling a large portfolio of new original works within a time limit) and I felt wrong. I felt like I should do it right then. Because I wasn’t doing it I was lazy and stupid. I felt so awful during that time that I thought I had something along the lines of depression. And it all stopped when I finished the portfolio. Gone. I said it might have been stress or mood swings or something but I’ve been doing more research and I don’t know what to do. YouTube may not be the best place to go, but I know a lot of people here have OCD and can say something. If anyone can offer advice, or is going through something similar I would appreciate it.

  • I’ve felt stuck and never seem to get anything done for about 2 years and only now I’ve realised that I’ve OCD. Stalling it just makes it worse. OCD is real and it’s a really underrated mental disease.

  • so.. if i scratch one part of my face i have to scratch the other side with my other hand. and more things like that. i don’t know if i have it but i feel like i do, but i don’t want to self diagnose myself. but i’m scared to go to the doctor

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  • when he said mental rituals i got very excited. i genuinely did not know anybody else experienced that, since nobody i know has ever talked about it. hearing these things tho makes me feel a lot better about my ocd because it makes me feel like im crazy. lol so it’s nice to see im big alone

  • I have a friend who got into a VERY unhealthy relationship.

    I’m not talking about the fact they were cheating (though they did that to) but if her ex didn’t get they’re way, they (to put it bluntly) would say things like “Do this or I’ll kill myself” and would do that every day until they get what they want.

    Also, if she was talking to a friend, the ex would get Really jealous, and start accusing her of cheating.

    Also, if my friend didn’t do what the ex wanted, they’d say things like, “your not enough” and “you should cut yourself”

    Keep in mind I really wanna kill this bish for doing all of this to my bestie:)

    Also, this happened when we were all TWELVE!!! I’m not joking!!!!

  • I have this thing that if a thought comes to my head I have to write it down otherwise if I forget it I literally cannot sleep till I remember and sometimes I will think about things I have to do I write them down and my mind is constantly going full speed telling me I have to do it and once I have done it “my life will be complete” however once I do it another thing comes along that I have to do and the cycle goes on and on can someone tell me what this is?

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  • I have a problem where I always have to go back to the original screen on a device like if I’m going out a game I have to press exit and go to menu

  • It just takes control over my life and wastes so much time. Like for example, if my fingers don’t hit the keyboard how I want them to, I’ll get this awful feeling of guilt in my stomach and I actually won’t be able to sleep. I’ll feel like something terrible is about to happen if I don’t do it right, so I start deleting that word over and over again, which leads to sentences, which leads to paragraphs. It’s awful, and there are so many instances. So please, if you drop something on the floor and say “my OCD made me pick it up” and you DON’T ACTUALLY SUFFER FROM OCD, please stop.

  • I haven’t been diagnose with OCD but I am pretty sure I have it.
    For example:I can’t stop myself from thinking about everything in my mind until its perfect,then I would umm do it out in reality and if I mess up I would do everything again and sometimes I would not even take a shower�� until everything is perfect even if it takes days.

  • my ocd is that they are mostly thoughts and really bad ones like killing my parents, idk why it’s aimed at them its so scary and sometimes I just think of jumping down a building and killing myself,im really scared, the ocd mind is starting to control me on what’s wrong and what’s right, I’m really confused, but when I was young my ocd was just tracing on wall cracks and checking stuff it’s gone so much worse omg help

  • I have OCD, I am so tired of it all. The cleaning, the recleaning, I could go over the same spot of carpet with a vaccum 20 times and still feel it could use another going over, I scrub my face until its dry and red, I sometimes feel like I can literally feel the dust particles that are on my keyboard or mouse.

  • Please everyone listen to me, it hurts to see that so many people are facing this. As I came here, I saw the comments, it’s beautiful that everyone Is being positive and sympathetic to each other but, while I was going through the comments it made me feel that this is such a big problem, having OCD is such a big problem!WHICH IS NOT TRUE! BELIEVE ME IT’S NOT TRUE! While trying to be positive unintentionally everyone just made it look bigger and worst, don’t do that,don’t do that to yourself,you are just giving ocd more power over yourself, it’s all in our head we think it to be a very big problem and that gives it more control over us, there are only few reason that people have it, first and main reason is thinking it to be a big problem, secondly not having important things to do in life( okay don’t take me wrong it doesn’t means that you don’t have goals,you have goals but ocd gets above everything for you its us who can priorities our things) tell yourself the truth,the truth that ocd is not a big thing,most of people have it in different forms it depends on us if you want to ignor it or let it hurt you and then it cause us to feel guilty, no don’t feel guilty, you haven’t done anything wrong you are the strong one that’s willing to fight something that you were not suppose do but still fighting.It’s not your fault.Nothing to be guilty about. The unwanted guilty makes it worse, it’s the guilt that hurts us the most not the thoughts
    So just ignor it and keep yourself busy as you become more focused in diffrent things eventually this off will go away slowly and you won’t even have to ignor anything.As you stop paying attention to it, as you stop believing that it’s a huge problem or something, as you become more focused towards life it will go away with some time and there will be a time when you won’t even remember that there was any such issue with you once. Stop this sympathy guys focus on your life it will go away.

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  • It sucks because if your underage you can’t just go out and get therapist to help you out and you don’t really wanna tell your parents because the thoughts are so disturbing so you just gotta live with this thoughts

  • At night when I put on my pajamas I question wearing black bc I associate black with haunted thoughts, so I choose something else. I think something will happen magically if i wear black.

  • Yea idek if I have it but I do always have thoughts that keep repeating in my head and I try to get rid of them but they don’t go away and they’re things that have already happened. I also spend alot of time brushing my teeth like I’ll do it 10 times bc I need to feel clean.

  • I felt like i done something wrong.But i dont know what it is. I know i didnt done anything wrong.But an anxiety about if I did or do in future. And all the day i got psychic problem. Sometimes I lose confidence to do works.Even I cant trust myself.I do hard tasks and it promotes to depression

  • Idk what this is but I need everything to be equal or have a nice beat top it like when I turn in a game I have to turn back the other way just to make it equal

  • im trying to figuire out if i have some mental issues because like if i kiss one of my cats 2 times, i gotta go run to the other cat that i have and also give it 2 kisses. And sometimes i just get a thought like: slap yourself or your family will die
    am i okay? like is this normal?

  • I don’t know what this is but sometimes I’ll be doing something and my brain will be like “If you don’t pick up that hair brush your family’s going to die” so then I have to pick it up. Like what is that?

  • People seem to struggle with accepting other people exactly as they are. Who they are. We want people to love and accept us for who we are, yet when we come face to face with doing this for OUR loved one’s, we struggle. Why is that? I make it a point to tell everyone I love that I love them exactly as they are, and to please never change, because they are perfectly imperfect just who they are.

  • When I know something is bad for me I start doing it more and on purpose, for example My friend told me that the more I frown the more wrinkles I get, I started getting sudden urges to frown on purpose and I can’t stop, I’ve been like that for 3 months. I keep lowering my head and it hurts my neck a lot but I just keep getting the urge to do it. I don’t know what this is, I’ve been trying to find a solution for so long but I don’t really know what’s wrong with me

  • If I touch something with my left hand I need to touch it with my right hand aswell sometimes. I need to check my whole bathroom for nothing so I can go to the toilet. I don’t know if this is it, but i hate it.

  • Idk if i have it but weirdly i have a fear of like wet germs like when i wash the dishes i have to keep wiping even if its clean..

  • I’m student and I have OCD.
    I really have a big problem with my lessons. I can’t study well because it’s hard for me I always check my homework and my writings again and again and it takes a lot of time. I always check doors and open and close them. I always put my stuff next to each other and I cant pay attention to my study I just clean my pens, books…
    And Also I always repeat some words again and again when I’m studing. This is very very hard for me:(��

  • I have OCD
    Most of the times i check something like 6 times
    “Is the door locked? ✅✅✅✅”
    “Is my phone like completly off ✅✅✅✅✅”
    “Is something still running for example my computer✅✅✅”
    …..

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  • I’m not sure if this is OCD or not, but I’ve always had it where it is basically a useless compulsion that is very stupid, ex: thought: “run back and forth to the refrigerator three times, and then tap the salt shaker 7 times, then eat a single berry, or else you will die within an hour.” I have the thought and it’s like the thought is separate from me, then I end up doing the compulsion. the compulsions can get pretty complex sometimes. I just want to know what this is and if it is normal or what. Someone, please answer I would really appreciate it!

  • One of the things that happens with me is the TV volume has to be at 11, 22, 33, 44, 55, 66, 77, 88, or 99. Some other things are: When I’m using a calculator and I press the clear button, I have to press it several times until it feels right. Whenever I go into the bathroom I have to look in the cabinets when I go in the bathroom and when I’m leaving. I also have to click a certain place on my computer screen several times, then click somewhere else, then click the first place again, and so on. Another thing is I have to check to make sure doors are locked several times or I’m afraid someone’s gonna break in. Another thing is I have to check sooo many times to make sure my phone is muted, the WiFi and Bluetooth are off, and the brightness is all the way down when I put it in my pocket or to charge….. There are sooo many other things that I couldn’t even begin to describe them all.