23 Stuff You Can Control



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Don’t worry about the things you can’t control. But there are a few things that you control, and that will help you live a happy life. Here Are 26 Things You Can Control. Your Beliefs. Your attitude.

Your thoughts. Your perspective. How honest you are. Who your friends are. What books you read.

There’s no sense in worrying about the things we can’t control, because, well, we have no control over them. Instead of stressing about the things out of your control, take power of your life and consider all the things you can control. 1. Your beliefs. 2. Your attitude.

3. Your thoughts. 4. Your perspective. 5. How honest you are. 6. Who your.

Right now, you can control: 1. How many times you smile today. 2. How much effort you exert at work, or, if you’re not working, how you think about your time off. 3. Your level of honesty. 4. How well you prepare, mentally or physically. 5. How you act on your feelings.

6. How often you say “thank. “Incredible change happens in your life when you decide to take control of what you do have power over instead of craving control over what you don’t.” —Steve Maraboli Knowing the difference between the things we can control and the things we can’t is a topic that comes up frequently, both in my own self-reflection and in conversations with. “Focus on what you can control, and don’t waste energy on the things that you cannot.” Unknown “Don’t let your happiness be controlled by something you cannot control.” Unknown “I can find only three kinds of business in the universe: mine, yours and God’s. Much of.

Trying to control things outside of their control can leave them feeling anxious, overwhelmed, and unable to focus on their academic coursework. I wanted to share with you a quick little activity to use with students who need a visual reminder to conceptualize the things they can and cannot control. If searches are taking too long in Windows, you can narrow things down a bit thanks to the May 2020 Update.

Under Settings > Search > Searching Windows set. If you can’t eliminate all of your stressors, you can at least cope with them in a healthier way. Try to: Change your expectations.

For example, plan your day and focus on your priorities. Avoid trying to do too much and learn to say no. Understand there are some things you can’t change or control, but you can focus on how you react to them.

Control what you can control, focus on your life, and work as hard as you can to achieve the things that you want in life. That is how you will truly turn all of your dreams into your reality. I wanted to share this with you simply because I wish somebody would have shared it with me while I was in the midst of my struggles. It’s funny, when you focus on these variables, things start to fall in place. You build momentum.

You feel better, more confident. Focus on what you can control.

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Let’s list just some of the things that you can control.

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Those are all things I control!

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Eliminate “visual pollution,” which is distracting 4, 5, 6 Too many visual cues posted are distracting and ignored.

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Notice that the word “control” isn’t used once in this list of goals.

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Next, compile a list of nine things you wish to manifest.

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Number four is a big one, we live our lives in our mental formations, don’t we?

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  • As someone who doesn’t believe in free will, I have an argument against all of these things but before I spill, I would love to see a video going into more detail on how we actually control these things.

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    Não se preocupe com as coisas que você não pode controlar

    O que é a vida? O que isso significa para mim?
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  • I’ll do a list of those things relevant to me and pin it to my wall and remind myself.
    What I really gonna put my focus on is on those things you can control by means of taking action.
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  • #25: I was thinking about this yesterday. It’s sort of sad the people who have accepted the position that ‘I can’t control what I believe’. It’s a form of placing the blame for their actions onto others, it seems.

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  • i wanna buy the book but i need a spnish version. thats the moment when im thinking what im doing with my life xD. wastin time thinking what i need to do 4 my future, but all this things are to far from me. so let start slowly and doing something i can control. amazing videos.

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  • I just re-established the Roman empire and conquered most of Iberia, while being aware that i could lose the war and knowing that i don’t control my generals, and being grateful for victory.

  • Listening to these song, my worries, anxiety, thoughts about my future if its go well, will be gone! Thank you so much soja!
    Its calms my mind and heart!

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  • Hi Ryan I love your vlogs so inspiring, and you have a such a positive mental attitude, very hardworking and fun too. But Question why did you not pursue your acting career? And can you do a vlog on that?

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